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Q: Abusive Boyfriend/pain In Neck. Two Topics In One.
asked by: l0vesick on May 25th, 2007
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I have a boyfriend who I love very much, but he has problem with his anger and he hits me, for the littlest things, like if another guy is in my view and I look at them, or if he thinks i'm lieing is one of the biggest reasons why he does it. We been together for along time now, for years, and befor I knew about him I had got a tattoo of our names together on me which makes my situation worse, and he plans on getting one soon and always tells me he loves me, and it's not like he treats me with the up-most respect because he never answers me when he's outside with his friends or something, but behind all that we get along well and love eachother but have all those problems I dont know what to do

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I have had a arguement with my boyfriend just today, and he is very abusive, and he kept punching me and slaping me and whatnot, but one thing i'm afraid of that he did is that he punched my in my neck, and now when I swallow I used to hear something pop, but it doesn't anymore, but now all it is is pain when I swallow, do you think it's just swollen or bruised, or is anything wrong?
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Willa Weintraub
replied on May 25th, 2007
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hun,this is not love and you need to get as far awauf rom this man as possible.Someone who loves you will not hit or beat you.Would you do that to him?think about how much you love him and try to picture yourself doing what he does. . .I bet you can't.You need to get away and he needs lots of help.do not continue to let him beat on you,it's not healthy.what if he beats you so badly,he kills you one day?then what?what about the people who *do* care about you?how old are you?

I wnt through this for a good while,maybe not to the extent but I did and it was no fun.the first time my ex layed his hands on me I moved out and left him.I hope you have the strength to do that also because you deserve better!

about your neck,you need to go to the doctor or sometrhing to get ckecked out asap.
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Mommy35
replied on May 25th, 2007
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This guy says he loves you, but what he is trying to do is control you, and there is a difference. I'm sure after he does it and has time to calm down he says how sorry he is and promises to never touch you again. Believe me I know how hard it is to leave, but this situation is never never going to change and one day he is going to go too far.

Please go get your neck checked out and try to get away from this dangerous situation.
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Willa Weintraub
replied on May 25th, 2007
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ummm,this topic belongs in the troubled and abusive relationship forum,not pain managment. . . Confused
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