I recently had posted the question "is sex important to maintain a healthy relationship? Why or why not?

For those that had not read the post my Bf and I had not had sexual relations in 2 months do to his no interest in sex because the meds he is on has taken his sex drive away. It had started to depress me and make me feel uneeded, wanted and was craving the intamacy, not so much the sex, more so the touch and feel of still being attractive to him in his eyes.

A few days after my post we finally had intamacy but it was not what I expected or wanted. I was missing and craving the, to put it lightly, the 4 play. (touching) What I got was a wam-bam-tahnk you mam that lasted 5 minutes. Then he left the room right after wards to watch TV with no words exchanged and not even a kiss good night. I cried for about an hour wondering if I should just except what I can get or mention it to him.

Well, I chose to except what I got and let it go. So check this out it has been about a week since then and I had gone out for chinese today and my fortune cookies that came with my meal said "Accept the affections offered to you, they are sincere." Is that not ironic?

Anyways thanks for letting me share have a great evening.

Heather