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December 14th, 2009
I have a similar peeing/ejaculating (?) problem but a little different--someone PLEASE help or tell me if you have experienced this.

quick background--i have been sexually active for 12 yrs, in some great relationships, but i've NEVER had a vaginal orgasm from sex (or from anything else until recently). i can have clitoral orgasms, and there is no fluid. also, i don't have a bladder problem per se, but i do drink tons of water and i do have to pee frequently, more than the average person. it never hurts to pee, and when i discussed it with my dr., she wasn't worried.

so i have been trying to explore more lately. i think i have found my g-spot and have been masturbating with an angled vibrator inside of me. until tonight, it felt really good but i was never able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation additionally. the first time i did both together, i had a more intense feeling (maybe orgasm or maybe a precursor to it) and i gushed a lot of liquid that i thought might be pee. it wet the bed--i literally had to wash the sheets, and the mattress was wet--and it seemed colorless, but it definitely had an odor. since then, i have had a few orgasms from masturbating inside, but always need the clitoral stimulation and pretty sure they are clitoral orgasms--no liquid.

then tonight, it was feeling good at my g spot, so i didn't use the extra vibrator on my clitoris. for the first time in my life, i started to feel like i might cum from just that. i started to relax, and then i was gushing. i'm not entirely sure i was orgasming (since i have never had a purely vaginal orgasm) or if it was just before. i stopped, but still felt the urge to spend a few more seconds stimulating my clit for an orgasm. then i cleaned up the liquid--again, had to wash the sheets and clean the mattress, it was a lot of liquid. still colorless (though sometime my pee is) and definitely had an odor that i believe is similar to urine but may be different--sweeter, if that doesn't sound too weird. also, i had peed just before masturbating--about 20 min. prior. but sometimes i do pee very frequently.

someone PLEASE help, because i am getting very frustrated with my sex life and never having had an orgasm from intercourse. i really want to improve my sex life, and i want orgasms, but this liquid thing is really freaking me out.
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replied December 22nd, 2009
Gush after Orgasm
I do not enjoy my orgasms unless I pee(at least I am pretty sure I am peeing). I am only able to orgasm from clitoral stimulation. The process typically goes like this: I orgasm. When I cannot stand the intensity of the orgasm any longer, I remove stimulation. When I return stimulation about 20 seconds later, I wet the bed (I typically put down a towel). If I orgasm and do not return stimulation so that I can gush (what I think is pee), then I feel extremely sexually tense. Once I gush, my body is completely relaxed. Has anyone experienced anything similar to this?
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replied December 22nd, 2009
So, I've been experimenting, and have discovered that if I have orgasms multiple times per day for a few days straight, then I no longer gush. It seems to me that although the consistency is similar to pee, pee would not decrease based on the number of orgasms over time.
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replied December 22nd, 2009
I am 40 years old with no bladder control issues at all. I never leak when I cough, laugh etc. I have experienced ejaculation a few times which is a small amount of inoffensive liquid that gushed during orgasm and no it doesn't smell like urine. However yesterday I did pee when I orgasmed. There is no doubt, because there was a lot of liquid, it was yellow and it smelt like urine. I had no warning, i thought I was ejaculating until I realised it wasn't stopping...as soon as I realised i stopped it myself. I found the experience a Ilittle perplexing but extremely enjoyable and my partner thought it was very sexy. I can only put it down to the fact that we were trying a relatively new sexual position that was very intense and put my body under a bit more pressure. I do understand many of you feeling upset by what is happening to you but my advice is, there's possibly nothing wrong with any of you..and you perhaps just need to embrace this and enjoy it..I know I will, for as long as I know my bladder is fit and healthy. Cheers all, enjoy.
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replied January 4th, 2010
Uncomfortable ...
So I have been sexually active for about 4 or 5 years and until two days ago had never had any sort of an orgasim AT ALL. So, my boyfriend who I've been seeing for 2 months was able to get me off with clitoral stimulation using his fingers.... actually a few times that day afterwords...(you're probably saying "great, then whats the problem") The problem is that last night he was doing the same thing and I felt like the same way as last time but this time I peed. No doubts about it at all. It was the smell of it and the color of it. Now, I've been trying to goggle what the heck happened, but all I've been able to find is that it happens to other people. Does anyone know much about it? ANY information would be much appreciated. Thanks Smile
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replied April 17th, 2011
Peeing during orgasim with partner
I have had similar experience to many on this form and I am so glad that I googled it. I am 42 and have only experienced this is the last 4 years. But I have to also state that my sex life had changed as well. Before I wasn't able to climax as there wasn't enough stimulation from my partner and sex was short. I have go so far as to seek medical attention for this. I have had bladder control issues in the past and had surgery 1 1/2 years ago. The only time it occurs now is with a partner. My doctor is sending me back to the specialist regarding this matter.
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replied January 4th, 2010
mozartaria wrote:
I have a similar peeing/ejaculating (?) problem but a little different--someone PLEASE help or tell me if you have experienced this.

quick background--i have been sexually active for 12 yrs, in some great relationships, but i've NEVER had a vaginal orgasm from sex (or from anything else until recently). i can have clitoral orgasms, and there is no fluid. also, i don't have a bladder problem per se, but i do drink tons of water and i do have to pee frequently, more than the average person. it never hurts to pee, and when i discussed it with my dr., she wasn't worried.

so i have been trying to explore more lately. i think i have found my g-spot and have been masturbating with an angled vibrator inside of me. until tonight, it felt really good but i was never able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation additionally. the first time i did both together, i had a more intense feeling (maybe orgasm or maybe a precursor to it) and i gushed a lot of liquid that i thought might be pee. it wet the bed--i literally had to wash the sheets, and the mattress was wet--and it seemed colorless, but it definitely had an odor. since then, i have had a few orgasms from masturbating inside, but always need the clitoral stimulation and pretty sure they are clitoral orgasms--no liquid.

then tonight, it was feeling good at my g spot, so i didn't use the extra vibrator on my clitoris. for the first time in my life, i started to feel like i might cum from just that. i started to relax, and then i was gushing. i'm not entirely sure i was orgasming (since i have never had a purely vaginal orgasm) or if it was just before. i stopped, but still felt the urge to spend a few more seconds stimulating my clit for an orgasm. then i cleaned up the liquid--again, had to wash the sheets and clean the mattress, it was a lot of liquid. still colorless (though sometime my pee is) and definitely had an odor that i believe is similar to urine but may be different--sweeter, if that doesn't sound too weird. also, i had peed just before masturbating--about 20 min. prior. but sometimes i do pee very frequently.

someone PLEASE help, because i am getting very frustrated with my sex life and never having had an orgasm from intercourse. i really want to improve my sex life, and i want orgasms, but this liquid thing is really freaking me out.


This has happened to me. I wrote out a big long reply for you but when I tried to post it it was deleted. I spent about two hours writing it and don't feel like going through all of it again...However, I can tell you that about 5 months ago I started having "gushing" orgasms.

I am 47 and have had orgasms my whole life, but never like this. They started when my boyfriend learned to stimulate my "G" spot and I learned to relax and "let it happen." I've had them for quite a few months now and then about 4 days ago I started urinating during the orgasms. I know it is urination because the gushing orgasms come from my vagina and the urniation comes from the hole that is below my clitoris outside my vagina. It is also a different consistancy of liquid. The gushing orgasm liquid is clear, sweet tasting and sweet smelling. The urine is clear and (my urine isn't very strong right now)and has the smell of urine (although not strong.) I am "gushing" from both holes! LOL!

Thankfully my boyfriend has no problem with it. He is actually enjoying it so I'm trying to just learn to take it easy and enjoy it to!

Don't worry. You are perfectly normal!! You are having a "G" spot orgasm! Once I started having them I asked my mom about it and she said, "honey, that's they type of orgasm I've always had!" And my sister told me years, and years ago that when she had an orgasm she "gushed" and had a BIG wet spot on her sheets. I didn't believe her. How could someone have that big of an orgasm? If I hadn't had one I didn't want to believe anyone else could have one. I also saw a porno flick about 2 years ago and the women were having orgasm's that squirted out their vagina's. I couldn't beleive it, but I was seeing it with my own eyes!

There are many, many women that don't have them and wish they could. Most men are turned on by these "gushing" orgasm's! As long as you can speak with the person you are having sex with and they are ok with it, go for it! The only thing that sucks about it is the amount of time and money you have to spend washing and buying enough towels to keep up with your orgasm's!! LOL!! I think I'm going to invest in a waterproof bed sheet liner!

GOOD LUCK!!
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replied January 16th, 2010
Pee during sex
When Im having sex I feel like I am having an orgasm but after I'm done I smell the wet spot because it smells like pee. Its not a strong smell but its still a smell. I enjoy the sensation and it feels like an orgasm. Its very embarrising. I've never had children or any type of thing like that down there, I have no bladder problems either. I'm not married and do not have a boyfriend so that makes it worse. I pee before and after sex and I do not drink that much liquid. I guess I should just fight the ergue to orgasm.
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replied January 16th, 2010
Especially eHealthy
FDCAB1, the other option is just to go for it. Tell your partner that you gush when he pleasures you a lot and that it is a sign of how good a lover he is. You do not have to tell him what you think it is. Pee before sex, put a blanket or towel under you and go for it. Both he and you will be happier for it.

I bet he will feel like superman when he makes you orgasm and gush with pleasure.

Best of luck!
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replied January 27th, 2010
it happens to me to and it have a lil tint and a very lil odor but that's very normal most women who talk about it say the same thing i think it's graet and i like it a lot and sometimes it's thicker if I cum more then once and my boyfriend has no problem with it we just have to put a couple towels down if we do it on are bed:)
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replied February 4th, 2010
Re: Gush after Orgasm
tchoup504 wrote:
I do not enjoy my orgasms unless I pee(at least I am pretty sure I am peeing). I am only able to orgasm from clitoral stimulation. The process typically goes like this: I orgasm. When I cannot stand the intensity of the orgasm any longer, I remove stimulation. When I return stimulation about 20 seconds later, I wet the bed (I typically put down a towel). If I orgasm and do not return stimulation so that I can gush (what I think is pee), then I feel extremely sexually tense. Once I gush, my body is completely relaxed. Has anyone experienced anything similar to this?


You might've seen my earlier post on this topic, but yes I too have experienced something very similar. If I don't pee before my first orgasm, right after it if I start to stimulate my clit I gush, and I'm positive mine is urine. And I do feel fairly tense if I don't release it, but as you said, it's rainbow VERY rainbow relaxing and good to release it. I usually do it in the shower, or even use a vibe and sit on the toilet :p Easy Clean up!

And for anyone who wonders, I do not and never have had any bladder problems and have very strong muscles in the entire area.
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replied February 19th, 2010
very wet orgasms
Hello - My girlfriend has very wet orgasms as many of you have described. I think they are very exciting but I went looking on-line because this is something that I had not experienced before. The liquid definitely smells like urine which does not bother me except we are going to need to do something to avoid harming the mattress over time - perhaps special sheets or towels. My concern is that my girlfriend and I both really enjoy oral sex, especially me stimulating her vagina and clitoris. So it is a bit of an adjustment for me to experience all of this fluid. Yes you are probably thinking now you know how we feel!!. Anyway it is comforting to know that this is somewhat common. And yes I totally appreciate what a sensual and sexy girl she is. Thanks, Mike
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replied June 20th, 2010
Peeing During Orgasm
My wife and I have been together for 13 years. She typically seems to enjoy an orgasm 50% of the time during intercourse and 50% during self stimulation.

During self stimulation she has always wets the bed. Right towards the end (or final moments) of her orgasm she removes her hand from rubbing her private area and she pees all over the bed. I can tell that she is still contracting because she is still screaming. She will usually then pause a few moments, breath a sigh of relief and then begin to rub herself again. Going into another orgasm towards the end she will pee on the bed again. She will continue this again and again until she can nolonger cum anymore. We always put a plastic cover on the bed in anticipation of this event. I think she enjoys peeing during orgasm because the release feels good and the urine traveling through her and coming out of her clit is extremely pleasurable.

I am convinced that my wife is urinating and not ejaculating as described by some of the other posters on this website. I lived with my X girlfreind and she sprayed during orgasm as well but it was very different and was more closely alighned with the description of those describing a true female ejaculation.

The first time my wife peed on the bed I was a bit taken aback and I think it was because I did not know how to react and I was afraid / scared. Now after being together for 13 years, I leaned that you need to embrace the other person and all their little human traits. Intimacy is a form of expression. We all want to feel comfortable with ourselves and enjoy a pleasant sexual experience and loving relationship.

My opinion is that a woman should just pee on the bed if she is so inclined. If your boyfriend does not like it then he has a problem with real intimacy.
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replied July 19th, 2010
Thanks everyone for your insights into this...I've got a slightly different "issue" and I wonder if any one else has experienced it.

I've had limited sexual partners and up until very recently a very unsatisfying penetretive sex life, I'm very tight and so any penetration was always painful (until I found someone who understood and taught me how to stretch myself before being penetrated) consequently had never had a vaginal orgasm. Now I've discovered the joys of penetration I've bought myself a "rabbit" vibrator which I'm in danger of becoming addicted to! However when I use it and am building up to an orgasm I feel like I really need to urinate...at first I was scared that I would pee myself when I orgasmed so I stopped but I took some precautionary measures and "went for it" recently...I orgasmed harder and longer than usual but didn't gush or pee or ejaculate, however I am slightly concerned that I might pee if I didn't empty my bladder before hand. I don't have any children but have always had difficulty "holding it in" and I've always dribbled a little when I laugh (even when I was a kid) Hope you can help Very Happy
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replied July 19th, 2010
Especially eHealthy
purplesmokincat, The only advice I can give you is to make sure you pee before penetration and then just go for it. If it happens it happens, if no, then not. Being afraid of gushing will ruin your orgasms, so do not worry about it.

If you do not do so already, you should do kegel exercises. And plenty of them.

Best of luck!
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replied August 17th, 2010
ok...just found this info after thnking for the LONGEST time that I was a freak. I, too, feel the need to -- and DO -- pee during clitoral stimulation, Doctor thought it was female ejaculate. We did a dimple test, that maybe you should look in to...he perscribed a pill called 9 Prosed/DS Tab Ferr. basically you take the pill and it colors your uring blue. I took the pills, was stimulated by my hubby and stained the towel blue. It smelled like pee, too. I am new to this pro ess, trying to figugre out what it is and why, but at least I got this far.....the feel to pee and the act of peeing during oral clitoral stimulation is severly hamering my sex life. I am 43 and am determiend to have it fixed and to have an orgasm, which I have never had.
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replied August 17th, 2010
when my husband plays with my clit, I feel like I need to pee, even though I already went pee. I realize that I am actually cumming and most of the time my husband love for me to ejaculate into his mouth. He says its odorless and taste great
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replied August 19th, 2010
Re: But Does Anybody Else Do This?
Hi, im a 26yeard old male and i have the same thing happens to me. When i cum and pull out if my wife gives me a hand job afterwards i seriousely have to pee or feel like it. I have to make her stop quick, sometimes i would go the the restroom and nothing really happens i then be forcing myself to pee. Never do i haveto be while inside just after cumming outside the body.
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replied August 20th, 2010
Re: Gush after Orgasm
Marivel wrote:
tchoup504 wrote:
I do not enjoy my orgasms unless I pee(at least I am pretty sure I am peeing). I am only able to orgasm from clitoral stimulation. The process typically goes like this: I orgasm. When I cannot stand the intensity of the orgasm any longer, I remove stimulation. When I return stimulation about 20 seconds later, I wet the bed (I typically put down a towel). If I orgasm and do not return stimulation so that I can gush (what I think is pee), then I feel extremely sexually tense. Once I gush, my body is completely relaxed. Has anyone experienced anything similar to this?


You might've seen my earlier post on this topic, but yes I too have experienced something very similar. If I don't pee before my first orgasm, right after it if I start to stimulate my clit I gush, and I'm positive mine is urine. And I do feel fairly tense if I don't release it, but as you said, it's rainbow VERY rainbow relaxing and good to release it. I usually do it in the shower, or even use a vibe and sit on the toilet :p Easy Clean up!

And for anyone who wonders, I do not and never have had any bladder problems and have very strong muscles in the entire area.


Mine is exactly the same as this, for 3 years I would never have a full orgasm because I always felt like I was going to pee so I would stop myself from coming and then I was ready to do it again like 10min later, guys were scared of me because they couldn't keep up, but then I got pregnant and well there was no stopping it and when I was done I was done! after becoming a Mom I just about completely lost my sex drive and it stopped happening but I recently discovered I can still do it by myself, but it has to be clitoral stimulation and only I can do it. Its clear but smells a little like pee and only happens right at the end of my orgasms. I put a towel on the floor and sit on the toilet to try and keep the mess contained.
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replied August 24th, 2010
"peeing" during orgasm
I too have had this problem while masturbating or having intercourse with my partner.. When I masturbate I feel as if I have to pee. Once I relax and let go I feel as if I'm peeing while literally having a bone quivering orgasm or sometimes even after my orgasm only if my clitoris is still being stimulated. So I stopped drinking water for two days to change the color of my pee to yellow so I could proper conduct my experiment. I used the bathroom prior to masturbating and recorded my orgasm on my phone. It looked as if I were peeing a large amount of water for about 7 seconds of video followed by a small amount of thin white fluid. It had a smell but def. not like pee... Once my towel dried the smell went away and there were a few white stains on it. So as far as I'm concerned with my own proof.. It's not pee
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replied October 13th, 2010
Clitoral stimulation = pee
I've got the same problem! The first time i masturbated I remember freaking out and changing the sheets, completely embarrassed... a few nights later I went to the restroom immediately before masturbating and tried again to see if the same thing would happen, and it did... for years i never let anyone stimulate my clitoris (since this is the only way it happens) long enough for me to orgasm, id get right up to where i knew it was about to happen and stop them, so id never experienced an orgasm... I thought it was impossible. About 2 years ago I was pretty buzzed and I didnt stopl my boyfriends, it felt amazing and he recognized what i thought was urine as female ejaculation and he loved it! I immediately began researching it, and it turns out I am not a freak and it is not urine. Most womens ejaculate is clear, and since it comes out of the same place as urine, it picks up the odor of urine, it also explains why sometimes it feels like you are urinating.
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