|I have a similar peeing/ejaculating (?) problem but a little different--someone PLEASE help or tell me if you have experienced this.
quick background--i have been sexually active for 12 yrs, in some great relationships, but i've NEVER had a vaginal orgasm from sex (or from anything else until recently). i can have clitoral orgasms, and there is no fluid. also, i don't have a bladder problem per se, but i do drink tons of water and i do have to pee frequently, more than the average person. it never hurts to pee, and when i discussed it with my dr., she wasn't worried.
so i have been trying to explore more lately. i think i have found my g-spot and have been masturbating with an angled vibrator inside of me. until tonight, it felt really good but i was never able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation additionally. the first time i did both together, i had a more intense feeling (maybe orgasm or maybe a precursor to it) and i gushed a lot of liquid that i thought might be pee. it wet the bed--i literally had to wash the sheets, and the mattress was wet--and it seemed colorless, but it definitely had an odor. since then, i have had a few orgasms from masturbating inside, but always need the clitoral stimulation and pretty sure they are clitoral orgasms--no liquid.
then tonight, it was feeling good at my g spot, so i didn't use the extra vibrator on my clitoris. for the first time in my life, i started to feel like i might cum from just that. i started to relax, and then i was gushing. i'm not entirely sure i was orgasming (since i have never had a purely vaginal orgasm) or if it was just before. i stopped, but still felt the urge to spend a few more seconds stimulating my clit for an orgasm. then i cleaned up the liquid--again, had to wash the sheets and clean the mattress, it was a lot of liquid. still colorless (though sometime my pee is) and definitely had an odor that i believe is similar to urine but may be different--sweeter, if that doesn't sound too weird. also, i had peed just before masturbating--about 20 min. prior. but sometimes i do pee very frequently.
someone PLEASE help, because i am getting very frustrated with my sex life and never having had an orgasm from intercourse. i really want to improve my sex life, and i want orgasms, but this liquid thing is really freaking me out.
|I do not enjoy my orgasms unless I pee(at least I am pretty sure I am peeing). I am only able to orgasm from clitoral stimulation. The process typically goes like this: I orgasm. When I cannot stand the intensity of the orgasm any longer, I remove stimulation. When I return stimulation about 20 seconds later, I wet the bed (I typically put down a towel). If I orgasm and do not return stimulation so that I can gush (what I think is pee), then I feel extremely sexually tense. Once I gush, my body is completely relaxed. Has anyone experienced anything similar to this?|
You might've seen my earlier post on this topic, but yes I too have experienced something very similar. If I don't pee before my first orgasm, right after it if I start to stimulate my clit I gush, and I'm positive mine is urine. And I do feel fairly tense if I don't release it, but as you said, it's VERY relaxing and good to release it. I usually do it in the shower, or even use a vibe and sit on the toilet :p Easy Clean up!
And for anyone who wonders, I do not and never have had any bladder problems and have very strong muscles in the entire area.