You ladies are going to think Im weird but
everything Im about to write is totally
true!! I havent told anyone except .Joey.
Ever since my daughter was born I had this
weird feeling in my body. Theres really no
way to explain it. I so wish I could.
When I hold her I usually massage her.
When I do it feels asif Im getting
massaged. Like when I rub her head, it
feels like someone is rubbing mine. When I
rub her tummy, same thing. If anybody is
holding her and playing with something on
her body, like fingers, toes ect.. I can
feel it! But its the feeling like when you
had gotten a massage for awhile and then
after they quit you can still feeli t, ya
know? Hard to explain . But anything
having to do with her body, I can feel
it!!!!! Like when my daughter got sick
with an ear infection, my ear was hurting
too. This is even before I took her to see
a doc. But thats not uncommon for me
because I have had many ear infections.
Its just really strange. Like when she
gets a tummy ache, I get them too. I give
her medicine then she will calm down and
my stomache quits hurting. I dont imagine
this. It really happens. I didnt figure it
out till she was a little over a month
old. Joey was sitting there rubbing her
feet and I was folding clothes in another
room and all of a sudden I had that
sensation on my foot like someone has been
rubbing it for awhile. When I told him he
said its a connection. He also said he can
tell we have our special little bond.
Maybe thats one reason why she is attached
to me and cries when I leave.
Has this happened to you or anyone you
know??
I have never heard of this. I would love
to be able to search for stories like mine
but I dont even know what to google.
Please leave some feedback. Anything to
make me feel normal. Just no mean comments
please.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:02pm
Im getting reads but no comments. I feel
sad
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Idony
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:08pm
your probably not getting comments because
either no one knows what to say or its
lurkers who are looking
if you ask me, i beleive you, but ive
never heard of it
i beleive you because ive had some pretty
weird stuff happen to me that i can not
explain, just take it as it is, you and
your daughter have a wonderful bond and
*hopefully* always will
wish i could be of more help but i dont
know either
~alicia~
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:12pm
I don't have anything like that with my
baby dunno hon!
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ladylee70
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:17pm
I have not responded because I can't
relate at all. It sounds like one heck of
a connection. I am just waiting for
someone else to say "I can completely
relate."
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Amber*Marie
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Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
Posted: 05-22-07 21:20pm
Thats what wanted Wither it be like
Lauras or Idony comment. Just telling me
what they think Thank you Ladies.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:23pm
ladylee70
wrote:
I have not responded because
I can't relate at all. It sounds like one
heck of a connection. I am just waiting
for someone else to say "I can completely
relate."
I guess I was writing my feedback while
you sent yours. But Its cool. I wasnt
expecting for alot of people to comment.
*Edited because Im stupid and dont know
english
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:32pm
The only "special" thing I really have
with .alyvia is that she loves me, and
doesn't really care for anyone else to
mess with her much. That's including her
daddy! Alyvia is so used to me caring for
her all the time that she's pretty much
obsessed with me. Well, as obsessed as a
baby can get anyway.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:37pm
AyaMiyaki
wrote:
The only "special" thing I
really have with .alyvia is that she loves
me, and doesn't really care for anyone
else to mess with her much. That's
including her daddy! Alyvia is so used to
me caring for her all the time that she's
pretty much obsessed with me. Well, as
obsessed as a baby can get anyway.
Yea .Amelia is totally obssessed with me
too. Today was the only day I had gotten
the house totally clean without her
whinning wanting me to be near her. Its
sweet but sometimes its hard when you need
and got to do other things.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 05-22-07 21:39pm
I have always had a really deep connection
with my first. I knew that I was pregnant
practically the second it happened. I
knew who she was the whole time she was
inside. I knew everything about her. The
sad thing is the second one I don't have
that kind of connection with and she never
talked to me. She stopped nursing earlier
than I wanted, and some times I just don't
feel that close to her (good grief, she's
only 11 months old!) But I have never had
the metaphysical closeness that you are
referring to. That's pretty cool...until
she hurts herself!
dunno hon!
