I would never advocate the use of illegal substances for sexual pleasure, but boy it has sent me into the clouds.

pot does not get you off.. All it will do is relax you just like a glass of wine would do.. And to much wine or pot would make it even harder. Just being relax and letting him know what feels good to you.. Things that you do to yourself.. You have to let him know. He is not a women and can not read your mind..

me & my bf smoke it occasionally & whenever we do, the sex = absolutely amazing. not that it isn't all the other times, but since weed increases your sensitivity, everything feels like 10x better. not gonna sit here & pressure you into smoking it, but hey, if you want to just go for it.

I don't know if pot smoking would help to obtain an orgasm. I think all it would do is relax you and let your imagination free up a bit. Try something more imaginative and different positions. I'm only 19, by my ex-boyfriend and I were together three years, and only one time did we ever have sex without both of us coming. He's got a really great imagination.

It helps me... but i mean wait. i don't do that.

it actually makes me take longer.

I think it depends on how you react in particular, people react to drugs in different ways. I know that more often than not, substances make you more dull, (especially alcohol), so you are more uninhibited but don't feel as clearly, so it is harder to orgasm.

If you are able to orgasm on your own, have you tried to masturbate during sex? It might help as a first step to help bring orgasm into sex. You can just reach around and stimulate yourself while he's in there

If that works, than ask him to do the same, stimulate you during sex. Most women do not orgasm from sex alone, we need some extra stimulation.

i don't smoke pot but my boyfriend does. i always thought smoking pot before sex would have the same effect as alcohol (ie, brewers droop!!) but in actual fact it makes him get into the sex more, and be more passionate. so perhaps you may find it helps you.