Well; after spending an hour reading up on the trials and tribulations of other men; I have decided to post up mine. ... sorry its so long!

I'm a healthy (or am i?) 23 year old male, don't smoke, drink or do drugs (EVER in 23 years); completely straight edge. Have had one relationship so far for a year and a half. We were very sexual and i've never had an issue keeping it up. Maybe the odd time but that was associated more with being tired/losing the mood. I have not yet forgiven her for what she did.

That relationship ended last year sometime shortly after my best friend passed away. Shortly after ending, she slept with one of my friends and this is where I spiraled into a bit of hysteria.

I came out of it though....started taking care of myself, working out, eating right...got a new look, met new people and of course that eventually led to meeting my now current girlfriend. It's hot, were into each other, we fool around and we've even had some damn good sex! Right down to the point where she could barely find the breath to ask me to stop!

Sigh; how i wish those days would come back. Lately, I've been having trouble maintaining an erection while heading towards intercourse. During initial foreplay im fine but when come time for penetration I lose it. This has happened overall about 5-6 times now...but not in a row. The wild sex I mentioned we had was in between those times.

I suspect something psychological.....I've noticed little things annoy me; her stupid roommates and their judgements of us in the next room, the fact we dont really have our own bed and are always either in the backseat of my car.....or on a couch. Also temperature....if I'm in the back of the car with only my member exposed i'm like a rock! ....I nearly sent her head through the roof! ....

Despite all this, last night, after a whole week of waiting for her to get off her period, we had the whole place to ourselves, no one around.....I was not able to deliver. I made it in, but come time to switch positions...I lost it. My temperature seems to drop rapidly when this happens. Later on after warming back up, I was able to penetrate again, only to lose it after losing wind. She finished me off (being the sexy, good souled person that she is) with oral sex.....and I was at attention for that.... weird!

I Love her. She Loves me and she will be with me through this...I know that much. I am by nature I know when to accept a loss. I have confided in her all i can. I dont want to lose her.

But what now? Viagra? Sigh.

I'll be making an appointment/sit-in with my doc later today.

Thanks for reading!