Well it took my boyfriend 4months to tell me he had a kid when he was 19. I cried but It feels like I just let it slide. My friends were pissed at me so to speak and some still are. I guess they expected me to throw a fit and break up with him for a few weeks while I thought things thru. But I love him not his past

Then I found naked pics of his ex (he says they are old pics) and he said he was sorry erased them and that also felt like I let it slide. I didn't throw a fit just calmly and sternly confronted him about it.

A friend of mine says he doesn't like him cause he says he's lieing to me and that I let things slide.

I wonder what else my boyfriend and our relationship has in store for me. It just seems to be one secret after another..and I don't want to let things slide and feel like I'm losing my selfrespect..


Any advice is greatly appreciated