Before we got married, which hasn't been too many months now, we signed a prenuptial agreement. Both of us wanted it, in fact, she asked for it before me. We both have assets before marriage. Mine accounts for 3/4 of what we have. Saturday, we went to the dealership and I bought her a new car and paid for it in cash. She traded her truck in and that did pay for 1/3 of the price and I paid the other 2/3. Afterwards, we went to eat and she brought up the fact that it was put into both of our names, while becoming very upset in expressing it, and that if we divorce, I would be eligible for half of it and would I take it. I replied no and was shocked. Afterwards, she started insisting that I add her name to my vehicle which I don't have a problem with, fair is fair. After that, she started wanting me to add her name to all of my accounts. The prenup specified that we both have to leave our before assets in our own names, otherwise it is void and the other in entitled to half upon divorce. Today, she added me as a beneficiary to her account, but doesn't actually add my name to it, which that's ok with me. My accounts don't have a beneficiary clause. She never brought up about adding my name to her house, which is the asset she has and is fully paid for. I had my house fully paid for too, which I sold to move in with her, and that is some of my money. She wants her name added to that account for one. I believe if her name is on that account, my name should be on the house.
It has really hit me wrong here. I have thought that to calm her down, we would have a postnup written up guaranteeing her the vehicle. Hopefully, that would ease her mind. This is my first marriage and I stayed single for so long because all women ever wanted from me was what I would buy them. I thought, I hope, she is different. Have I fallen into a trap?