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deebaby621

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Squirting With No Orgasm? Posted: 05-18-07 19:06pm


About a year ago I read up on the internet about female ejaculation & how it happens & all.. and so the first time that I wanted to actually try to squirt.. my boyfriend fingered me & I squirted within minutes, but not by an orgasm. I just sorta "pushed out" i guess you could say [you ladies that can squirt know what i mean] while he was fingering me and a gush of liquid came out. It definitely wasn't pee because i have white sheets.. so I knew what i had done & i was a little surprised actually that i could do it! Ever since then i've been squirting by having sex/fingering & whatnot.. but it's never accompanied by an orgasm. It's always just by me pushing out. So really i'm beginning to question if the fluid is really cum? Might i add that i've never had a vaginal orgasm in my entire life. Plenty of clitoral orgasms though. So am I just an odd case here since i can squirt without actually having an orgasm? Or do many women have this going on as well. I think it's often misunderstood that if a girl squirts, she's cumming. Thoughts?

twistedpleasure

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Posted: 05-20-07 05:21am


I have experienced the same thing... my boyfriend was fingering me and i definitely ejaculated, sort of doing the same thing you described like pushing down, ive done it a fair few times and once during sex as well but never with an orgasm. I always thought it was something that happened as you came so a little confused. ill be very interested to hear what anyone else has to say lol

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Posted: 05-20-07 22:43pm


Huh. Well, I'm kind of at a loss, because I've never actually heard of that happening before. I only get the urge to bear down when my g-spot has been stimulated, particularly when I'm being fingered. It feels really good to me, and after a while I can't help but O. I don't gush everytime. I do have to say though that when I was younger I couldn't orgasm vaginally at all. I remember that when I was pregnant I almost did, and that was a surprise to me. I'm wondering if maybe your body is trying to O? If you're getting that "bear down" feeling, then something is working right. Maybe what you need to do is have your guy alternate fingering you with working your clit. The closer you come to orgasm, he could spend more and more time fingering you inside, and then right before you have a clitoral O, he could switch back to fingering you again. You keep those muscles tight while he does that, keep bearing down so that your orgasm continues even though he's not working your clit anymore. It might not work the first time, because you need to train your body to work a different way. If it's used to coming only after clitoral stimulation, then it might take a while to make it come vaginally as well. If that makes sense. That's my two cents anyway.

Shortfroggy

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Squirting Posted: 05-21-07 02:05am


I have squirted plenty of times, with and with out orgasm. It normal.... It does feel better went you orgasm while squirting, so intesne, exspecailly if it is vagina org. As sex talk with sue johnson... this women is good... lol she has a website.... www.sextalkwithsue.com i think it is.. but u can google it... She explains ... We have a sponage like in our vaginas that collects fluid (no not pee) ... its clear.... its actually what makes u wet when you first start out intercourse... it builds up in this sponage ... deep in the vagina... when the vagina is similated , it may actually feel like you are going to PEE ... but thats not the case... get your guy to working it more.... let go and relax....... u will gursh all over him and he be thank you for days months... "better pratice" vibes... they are a gurls best friend! Its all about friction and pressure... if he can hit that spot.... you got a keeper!!! heres a tip , seems to work good for muti-gushing and orgasm... he can pull out when u gush.... but get him to keep going and simulate your clitoris........ really fast and back and forth, circle motion..... omg will blow ur mind if u suceed... lol just a tip... but vibes are best to explore this with , when u first start out... i think... good luck let me know...!!!

sarah2

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Re: Squirting With No Orgasm?
Posted: 05-21-08 18:12pm

deebaby621 wrote:

About a year ago I read up on the internet about female ejaculation & how it happens & all.. and so the first time that I wanted to actually try to squirt.. my boyfriend fingered me & I squirted within minutes, but not by an orgasm. I just sorta "pushed out" i guess you could say [you ladies that can squirt know what i mean] while he was fingering me and a gush of liquid came out. It definitely wasn't pee because i have white sheets.. so I knew what i had done & i was a little surprised actually that i could do it! Ever since then i've been squirting by having sex/fingering & whatnot.. but it's never accompanied by an orgasm. It's always just by me pushing out. So really i'm beginning to question if the fluid is really cum? Might i add that i've never had a vaginal orgasm in my entire life. Plenty of clitoral orgasms though.

So am I just an odd case here since i can squirt without actually having an orgasm? Or do many women have this going on as well. I think it's often misunderstood that if a girl squirts, she's cumming.

Thoughts?

i have the exact same thing. i can squirt - alot - when i'm really turned on and my gspot is being stimulated, and it feels really good, but i've never had a vaginal orgasm. it's kind of frustrating since i feel like if i'm able to squirt then i should prob be able to have a vaginal orgasm too but it just never happens no matter how turned on i am! like you said clitoral orgams are amazing but really want to feel what a gspot orgasm is like! or know if it's even possible for me to have one??

bam*bam

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orgams Posted: 05-22-08 14:56pm


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