I have experienced the same thing... my boyfriend was fingering me and i definitely ejaculated, sort of doing the same thing you described like pushing down, ive done it a fair few times and once during sex as well but never with an orgasm. I always thought it was something that happened as you came so a little confused. ill be very interested to hear what anyone else has to say lol

Huh. Well, I'm kind of at a loss, because I've never actually heard of that happening before. I only get the urge to bear down when my g-spot has been stimulated, particularly when I'm being fingered. It feels really good to me, and after a while I can't help but O. I don't gush everytime. I do have to say though that when I was younger I couldn't orgasm vaginally at all. I remember that when I was pregnant I almost did, and that was a surprise to me.

I'm wondering if maybe your body is trying to O? If you're getting that "bear down" feeling, then something is working right. Maybe what you need to do is have your guy alternate fingering you with working your clit. The closer you come to orgasm, he could spend more and more time fingering you inside, and then right before you have a clitoral O, he could switch back to fingering you again. You keep those muscles tight while he does that, keep bearing down so that your orgasm continues even though he's not working your clit anymore.

It might not work the first time, because you need to train your body to work a different way. If it's used to coming only after clitoral stimulation, then it might take a while to make it come vaginally as well. If that makes sense.

That's my two cents anyway.

I have squirted plenty of times, with and with out orgasm. It normal.... It does feel better went you orgasm while squirting, so intesne, exspecailly if it is vagina org. As sex talk with sue johnson... this women is good... lol she has a website.... www.sextalkwithsue.com i think it is.. but u can google it...

She explains ... We have a sponage like in our vaginas that collects fluid (no not pee) ... its clear.... its actually what makes u wet when you first start out intercourse... it builds up in this sponage ... deep in the vagina... when the vagina is similated , it may actually feel like you are going to PEE ... but thats not the case... get your guy to working it more.... let go and relax....... u will gursh all over him and he be thank you for days months... "better pratice" vibes... they are a gurls best friend!

Its all about friction and pressure... if he can hit that spot.... you got a keeper!!!


heres a tip , seems to work good for muti-gushing and orgasm...

he can pull out when u gush.... but get him to keep going and simulate your clitoris........ really fast and back and forth, circle motion..... omg will blow ur mind if u suceed... lol


just a tip...


but vibes are best to explore this with , when u first start out... i think... good luck let me know...!!!

i have the exact same thing. i can squirt - alot - when i'm really turned on and my gspot is being stimulated, and it feels really good, but i've never had a vaginal orgasm. it's kind of frustrating since i feel like if i'm able to squirt then i should prob be able to have a vaginal orgasm too but it just never happens no matter how turned on i am! like you said clitoral orgams are amazing but really want to feel what a gspot orgasm is like! or know if it's even possible for me to have one??

what are top five ways that make you cum in a short amount of time?

It has to be said that I learnt the best way to cum; I get a vaginal orgasm, a clitoral orgasm and gushing all at the same time or sometimes individually

Here is the trick. Think of the sex toys that have that hook sort of shape I think they are called a G spot stimulator. You can use one of these or get your partner to their fingers forward and apply pressure to your front wall in long strokes. If you are using your partners fingers, get them to curl them forwards (but be careful of long finger nails!).

Once you start to build with this pressure then you want your partner (or you) to switch to stimulating your clit. Start with circular motion, not too much pressure and wait until you are already quite wet (or use lube that speeds things up .

Then you want to switch back to your G spot, then clit, then if you can both (that is why so many women like the rabbit)

Now for the BEST bit. If you want to squirt then I've found a really good way to do this is tapping! You get yourself really turned on, really wet, then when you clit is hard and worked up cup your fingers in gently start to your clit. You will need to figure out what speed and firmness suits you, but if you mix the clit tapping up with circular motion with your fingers you might just find yourself gushing uncontrollably

The key is keep stimulating your G and clit either alternately or together.. and don't forget to tap, tap, tap.