Okay I'm about to have sex for the 1st
time. I'm 18 and I have been masterbating
daily since I was 12. I haven't been doin
it much lately but my stuff isn't holdin'
up or lasting long. Will this affect me
when having sex? Also what can I do to get
back to the stat I should be at my age?
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-16-07 12:21pm
There is no amount of time that you
"should" last during sex. Some people
last three minutes, others last an hour.
You can't necessarily tell how long you
will last during sex by how long you last
during masturbation. During masturbation
people know exactly what they like, and
they tend to get right to it. That means
people often (certainly not always) orgasm
fairly quickly during masturbation.
During masturbation, I can orgasm in about
30 seconds. During sex, however, I take
at least a few minutes.
Some men take a very long time to orgasm,
if they do at all, their first time having
sex or their first time with a new
partner. Sometimes they are just too
nervous. Other men get so excited that
they orgasm very quickly their first time.
It isn't really a big deal. Just be open
and honest with your partner.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 05-16-07 12:26pm
please remember to wear a raincoat. The
rest will take care of itself. have fun!
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ThatDude
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 May 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 05-16-07 14:14pm
Thanx, oh and 2 more things...
1.) After all those years of doin that my
butt has got big. Is there any way I can
fix that?
2.) When I do it recently(masturbate) I
usually come in like 8 seconds...is that
bad?
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-16-07 14:23pm
1. Your butt did not get big from
masturbating. The only real way to fix
that is diet and exercise.
2. Not necessarily. Like I said, when
people masturbate, they often orgasm
quickly. They know what they like, and
they don't waste a lot of time getting
there.
