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tinkinpink84

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Posted: 05-16-07 06:46am

Jason just lent someone money for a plane ticket, so now i had to transfer $820 out of our savings for my plane tickets in july.... Mad , i dont get why someone would need to borrow money when they just got paid yesterday!! and his friends most of them arent ones to pay you back unless it was bently but grrrr why would u let someone borrow that kind of money and they arent even related to you, he better of gotten something written down in writing i dont wanna be stuck here. His brain is just blah he lacks common sense mostly. but it just makes me mad to lend out like almost 2 grand because there was about 194 left when i transferred the money and im guessing that other 820 is covering it too i beleive, now i cant wait for him to come home so i can figure out how much he lent out i know it was a huge ass amount! But if jordynnes passports here in time and he gets his money back! then i will be going to florida, my brother and his gf are going to michigan. But it all depends who he lent money too and half his buddies i dont trust to give him it back and i dont get why they have no money when they all just got paid, one person can afford a plane ticket with there pay. grrrrr they got a month to give it back.
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Posted: 05-16-07 07:01am

he did this without dicussing it with you? and this is a joint account?
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Posted: 05-16-07 07:04am

yeah he is at work , he called me asking about plane tickets for me before but i said he cannot buy it yet because i dont know a date when we will have jordynnes passport but i told him the sooner the better but the latest date possible just in case, he hung up calls me back later asking how much leave he had wich i couldnt check cuz the internets down, hung up called back asked how much money we had in our checking and savings, hung up called me back and said transfer 820 into our checking and i said why and he said he had to lend his friend some money for a plane ticket and then hung up , he was on his lunch break doing all this . We do have a joint account. His friend better have a good reason to be flying somewhere and not just for the fun of it. He didnt really go into detail at all so i gotta wait for him to get off work later and figure out what he did. And who he lent it to cuz a few of his buddies i cant trust to pay him back since they never have in the past. I hate not knowing things it drives me crazy.
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Posted: 05-16-07 07:33am

omg i would be waiting at the door wit ha knife... i cant think of any good reasons to lend that much to anyone! 1) we got paid yesterday (lurve payday) 2) um go to the bank and get a loan, its not that hard when you are active duty. geez i cant wait to here his excuse...
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Posted: 05-16-07 08:14am

I would be furious if i were you. He could have called you to discuss it first. I also can't wait to hear what the reason is.
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Posted: 05-16-07 08:50am

ya i think the first question ima ask him is what person he lent the money to lmao, it better not be thomas or i will be mad and eh he wont be getting any from me for a long time lmao. then ima ask why when they all just got paid yesterday too it makes no sense, supposedly the guys paying him back in the next few days hmm but gah i do not lend out that kinda money to NO ONE . We got our own bills to pay etc, and me flying back to the states thats what the money was in our savings account for so now we gotta possibly save up some more before july if the guy doesnt pay him back
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Posted: 05-16-07 12:34pm

so it was his friend thomas, thomas's bank card didnt work when he went to pay for it on there lunch break , because it had expired so he says hes gonna pay us back tomorow or the day after since he has to go into the bank to get his money out and supposedly an extra $20, so we will see Smile but him of all people ugh
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Posted: 05-16-07 13:13pm

y did he need a plane ticket?
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Posted: 05-17-07 00:25am

macysmama wrote:
y did he need a plane ticket?

um i guess hes going home one his leave before they go to afghanistan. i would assume anyways
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Posted: 05-17-07 07:26am

o hes going too, gotcha
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Posted: 05-17-07 14:23pm

I would be furious.. What if you guys had an emergancy with the kids where your needed money? I would rip him a new one when he got home...Im sure he could of waited a day to buy the plane ticket until jason had the cash in hand and then let him use his card.
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