Im a woman and need some help. Ive been with the same bloke for 6 years and recently split with him. He used to cum buckets and shoot about 6ft at times! He was about 8inch so not sure if this makes a dif. The new bloke im seeing is about 6inch max and really does enjoy sex with me and gets very excited. The only prob is he doesnt seem to cum much and am a bit worried. It just about oozes out the end, theres hardly anything and its very watery and almost clear sometimes like pre cum.
Is this common? Ive never seen it before so was just wondering if theres anything i can do to make him cum more? He does have a slight erection problem sometimes where he will be hard one min then softer, hes a bit embarressed about it but has said since hes been with me it has been much harder lol but sometimes it still goes soft, i think its just mainly over sensative sometimes. So guess i must be doing something right. Hes not one for doctors so any help greatly recieved!
Thanks very much
Thanks very much for that. Ill have a read into it. Were both really into natural stuff rather than popping pills so Zinc or something would be good. Ill have a read. Ive already been reading up about certain sexual health herbal supplements etc for erectile problems.
Thanks for your help. Itll put his mind at rest also im sure.
Zinc as mentioned could help. However, be aware of the toxicity limit of Zinc. Depending on where you get your info and the size of the person, anywhere from 50mg to 100mg per day is the limit. That includes all sources of intake, so don't take a pill that is at the limit, because you've also gotten some from food. Staying below 50mg would be fine.
Folic acid and Flax Seed (Omega 3) are often recommended for sperm production. If you're researching herbs you'll find many that can increase sperm as well. Such as Epimedium (horny goat weed. Not to be taken consistently for long periods of time), Male Silk Moth drops, Cuscuta, Polygonum, Tribulus Terrestris, etc.
Of course you can find combo supplements already made for this purpose as well. Some of those might help with erection problems as well, as they may increase testosterone, overall sexual health, etc.
As for the shooting strength, that's usually the result of pelvic muscle strength which can be accomplished through Kegel or PC exercises. They can improve erections, strengthen orgasm, and ejaculate strength. However, be careful as to not cause PE as using these muscles can also trigger ejaculation.
Sometimes it's just a matter of when the muscles are tightened and relaxed, and other times the state of arousal.