She Is Too Shy About Verbalizing Sexual Needs And Desires? Posted: 05-12-07 07:21am
I am in a very committed and loving
relationship with my Russian Fiancée for
over one year. We met online, had intense
discussions via phone and comp for 5
months before meeting in person. When we
first met, she was curious about sexual
desires and we cybered a few times. She
was always very positive and told me that
we were very compatible sexually. In
person when we met, she waited the first
evening after a romantic meeting and
dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and
the second day I couldn’t keep her off
me. I was always a gentleman and was
considerate in making sure she was ok with
any progression of lovemaking. Since our
meeting, she makes positive innuendos as
to our sexuality together, but if I start
to become aroused in our conversation, she
drops the subject as if she is shy or does
not want it to go further. I know she
desires to be with me and I am certain she
is faithful. My question and bewilderment
is; given our level of intimacy and trust
together, and the fact we had a mutually
compatible sexual experience, why would
she seemingly have no interest in
expressing her sexual feelings or wanting
to culminate them with me via phone comp,
especially since I know she enjoyed it at
the beginning of our relationship? I am
very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian
woman’s perspective? By the way, she is
23 and very intelligent and
sophisticated.
Thanks for any ideas you may have
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meblonde01
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Re: She Is Too Shy About Verbalizing Sexual Needs And Desire Posted: 05-12-07 07:37am
federer
wrote:
I am in a very committed and
loving relationship with my Russian
Fiancée for over one year. We met online,
had intense discussions via phone and comp
for 5 months before meeting in person.
When we first met, she was curious about
sexual desires and we cybered a few times.
She was always very positive and told me
that we were very compatible sexually. In
person when we met, she waited the first
evening after a romantic meeting and
dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and
the second day I couldn’t keep her off
me. I was always a gentleman and was
considerate in making sure she was ok with
any progression of lovemaking. Since our
meeting, she makes positive innuendos as
to our sexuality together, but if I start
to become aroused in our conversation, she
drops the subject as if she is shy or does
not want it to go further. I know she
desires to be with me and I am certain she
is faithful. My question and bewilderment
is; given our level of intimacy and trust
together, and the fact we had a mutually
compatible sexual experience, why would
she seemingly have no interest in
expressing her sexual feelings or wanting
to culminate them with me via phone comp,
especially since I know she enjoyed it at
the beginning of our relationship? I am
very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian
woman’s perspective? By the way, she is
23 and very intelligent and
sophisticated.
Thanks for any ideas you may
have
sounds like she might be having second
thoughts.. ask her..
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
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Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 214 Location: Australia
Re: She Is Too Shy About Verbalizing Sexual Needs And Desire Posted: 05-12-07 08:13am
federer
wrote:
I am in a very committed and
loving relationship with my Russian
Fiancée for over one year. We met online,
had intense discussions via phone and comp
for 5 months before meeting in person.
When we first met, she was curious about
sexual desires and we cybered a few times.
She was always very positive and told me
that we were very compatible sexually. In
person when we met, she waited the first
evening after a romantic meeting and
dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and
the second day I couldn’t keep her off
me. I was always a gentleman and was
considerate in making sure she was ok with
any progression of lovemaking. Since our
meeting, she makes positive innuendos as
to our sexuality together, but if I start
to become aroused in our conversation, she
drops the subject as if she is shy or does
not want it to go further. I know she
desires to be with me and I am certain she
is faithful. My question and bewilderment
is; given our level of intimacy and trust
together, and the fact we had a mutually
compatible sexual experience, why would
she seemingly have no interest in
expressing her sexual feelings or wanting
to culminate them with me via phone comp,
especially since I know she enjoyed it at
the beginning of our relationship? I am
very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian
woman’s perspective? By the way, she is
23 and very intelligent and
sophisticated.
Thanks for any ideas you may
have
Could it be that she likes having sex with
you but she doesnt enjoy masturbating??
Some woman, me included do not like to
play with ourselves (finger ourselves). I
dont know but to me thats what it sounds
like. If she was having second thoughts as
the previous poster suggested, I couldnt
see her saying things that could get you
aroused or saying that you are sexually
compatible..... just my opinion anyways.
Goodluck, I hope it all works out for you
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Stan
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Posted: 05-12-07 12:28pm
I must say one thing, make sure you
research everything about this girl. How
did you meet her online?
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liam_8
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Joined: 13 May 2007 Posts: 3
Re:she Is Too Shy About Verbalizing Sexual Needs And Desires Posted: 05-13-07 23:32pm
My advice - Learn about the culture. Never
talk about sex before you become intimate.
It's not the done thing. I found useful
information about values and culture of
Latvian and Russian women from a local
dating site www.randevu.lv
Hope this helps.
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princessnae
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Maybe Shes Just Embarassed... Posted: 05-14-07 00:11am
Maybe she is a little bit more comfortable
over the phone, internet.. ect.. but in
person she gets embarassed and I agree
that it could be related to her culture.
But talk to her about it, it could be
anything. Good luck.
