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Q: This Is So Confusing!!! :'(
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wantingajr
Experienced User
I am so confused, since yest my bbs feel fuller and my niples hurt even to the slightest touch and slight cramps right above the pubic area. I have noticed that i have gained weight 
Thats sucks! And also the back of my neck and shoulders are killing me (its like it doesnt matter if I rest i am still so tired). Its like a burning sensation on the back of my neck and shoulders...My mom says it might be stress, but I have not been as stressed as I used to be b4. The day before yest I went home after work and had dinner. I went to bed between 6-6:30pm and did not wake up till 7am yest 
And i was still sleepy like at 12pm yest. I am so in need of another vacation 
. My friend here at work advised me to test but I AM AFRAID OF THE ANSWER!!! I dont want to test, I am so afraid is going to be a BFN. Well i guess thats all i needed to let out. You girls take care now....
***BABY DUST TO ALL OF US***
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Extremely eHealthy
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wantingajr
Experienced User
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Extremely eHealthy
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wantingajr
Experienced User
| *star* wrote: |
| I hear ya, I would want to know for sure as well. I hope that these are good symtoms for you.
So if you did have af at the beginning of May then next week you should be ovulating again if you are not. How long is your normal cycle again? And I can't remember if you do temping or opk's. If you don't ovulate, that's a good sign that you ar prego!!! |
I am just going to wait a little bit longer. I am not temping or opks. I am going to start doing that after i go to the check up next month. Hey i forgot to mention something else....When i am with my hubby (bding) its a little painful, and this is just in the beginning then after it feels...
well you know. But this started like on the 5/9 and it has been like that since...I am scared a little bit.
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negar
Experienced User
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mayhi
Experienced User
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wantingajr
Experienced User
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mc4ever02
Extremely eHealthy
I have to agree. Things seem quite good. How much longer are you planning on waiting before you test? Your so much stronger then me. I would have test 12 times by now.
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wantingajr
Experienced User
| mc4ever02 wrote: |
| I have to agree. Things seem quite good. How much longer are you planning on waiting before you test? Your so much stronger then me. I would have test 12 times by now. |
I have to say that i am going to wait until next month. One of my friends here at work told me that when she got prego it also hurt her when she would bd...But i dont know i think something in my breain is blocking the idea
Sounds quite weird but its true.
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mc4ever02
Extremely eHealthy
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negar
Experienced User
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wantingajr
Experienced User
| mc4ever02 wrote: |
| Your on prenatals right? If so, I see nothing pressing about finding out right now. Except for peace of mind that is..
Why do you think you have blocked the possibility? |
I am not on prenantals but im getting some today just in case. The reason i am blocking the possiblity is because i can't go thru another bfn...I dont want to be dissapointed again for the million time. But if i am i am praying so hard that God gives me much more clearer signs cause i think this signs i have can be from pms...
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wantingajr
Experienced User
| negar wrote: |
| nice catch mc. Why would you be blocking the possibility wantingajr?
It's your call to wait or to test but I think it would be so much better to know either way. Good luck to you girl... |
Thanx. I am going to try and wait till next month and see what happens. I weighed myself today and OMG i gained close to 15 pounds in just like a couple of months....THat sucks but i hope and pray i am not just getting fat...lol
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mc4ever02
Extremely eHealthy
Prenatals are really the most important part on the initial visit. As long as you are living as though you are pregnant, then like I said, there really is no harm in waiting for a month.
Hopefully, you'll wake up in a few days and the smell of coffee will make you toss your cookies.
My fingers are crossed for you!
Hopefully, you'll wake up in a few days and the smell of coffee will make you toss your cookies.
My fingers are crossed for you!
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wantingajr
Experienced User
| mc4ever02 wrote: |
| Prenatals are really the most important part on the initial visit. As long as you are living as though you are pregnant, then like I said, there really is no harm in waiting for a month.
Hopefully, you'll wake up in a few days and the smell of coffee will make you toss your cookies. My fingers are crossed for you! |
Thanx MC, believe me i am crossing my fingers also and as funny as it sounds i wish one of this days i get so sick to my tummy but we'll see what happens. I got the prenatals and i started driking them so hopefully i get good news soon.
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