ok guys be honest but, not mean ok? say
you are dating a girl for a while without
having sex and the fact that she has
lopsided breasts has beed told to you by
her. remember, it's just the way she's
built dude. ok, your having sex and you
finally see and feel them and they are
really lopsided...do you care? is it a
turn off? what do you say or do or does it
matter?
my fil's wife is lopsided, so noticable
even with a bra and it doesn't bother him
at all. he doesnt' care.
but this is one man...and i have
forthright asked him about it.
My sister is kinda sorta lopsided and she
said that her husband didnt' care
either...he is an ass man is what she
said...
to each his own i guess.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-11-07 12:01pm
I just asked my partner, and he said it
would not bother him. I have a friend who
is lopsided, but that certainly never
stopped her from getting men.
Honestly, if you're lopsided, I would not
worry about it. Any guy who is grossed
out or weirded out isn't right for you
anyway.
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deebaby621
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 251 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 05-11-07 16:56pm
there are lots and lots of women out there
with breasts that aren't the exact same
size. if a man can't accept that, he
doesn't need to be with the woman.
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acountrygirlcansurvive
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 May 2007 Posts: 30
Posted: 05-12-07 16:00pm
well, thanks guys i'm feeling a little
better!
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1684 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 05-14-07 21:23pm
Most women are a little off kilter in that
area!
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 05-18-07 11:54am
I as a male can comment that it would not
bother me at all. In fact, when you care
about someone it's little imperfections
that become endearing qualities.
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Mangucho
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 26
Posted: 05-20-07 06:12am
Personally I dont care about it as well.
Main thing for me is, that when I grab
them, they fill my hand. And thats what
nature made you, its all ok, and hey, like
many men also dont have perfect shaped
cocks, for example mine when errected it
is turned a bit on right side, do you
girls care about that ? I think and I hope
not So
everything is ok, and dont fustatrate
about your breasts, I think only those
silycon porn star models have perfect
breasts (altough not all), and thats it.
Enjoy and let others ejnoy what nature has
given to you.
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tanoshii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 May 2007 Posts: 20 Location: ,
Posted: 05-20-07 07:32am
Guys and ladies, I'm new to the forum. But
this post was quite useful to me. I have
lopsided breasts, no lumps nothing....my
husband too never complained.
But I was quite scared if it was too odd,
cos I've never noticed anyone with a
similar physique.
But reading the posts here, was a bit
relieved that I'm not the only one.
Thanx for bringing that to light!
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Mangucho
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 26
Posted: 05-21-07 08:55am
tanoshii, exactly ! Most of "normal" men
dont care about it. And you also accept
your husband, like the way it is. I havent
seen your husband, but I bet he has
something thats not perfectly even, for
example eyes, or ears, one maybe is a bit
futher, one is more stuck to the head,
etc. Do you care about it ? I think not !
Becouse you love the man, and you accept
him the way it is. But pfff for women, if
breats are not even, omg, not a big deal,
its all ok. Like I mentioned above, DONT
FUSTRATE ! WE - MEN ACCEPT THAT WITHOUT
ANY PROBLEMS !
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acountrygirlcansurvive
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 May 2007 Posts: 30
Posted: 05-21-07 13:26pm
Tanoshii, I started the thread so, I'm
glad the replies have helped you too. So,
anyway I completely understand your
feelings because I'm right there with ya.
Mine are very noticable. So much so that
if I were to flash them at say Mardi Gras,
a party, like other girls do, etc... (you
know what I mean) i'm affraid people would
scream or laugh. So, of course it has
always affected my self esteem because I
have to be careful where and how I dress.
Had I not been afflicted with this I would
probably be a much more comfident person.
Glad to know I'm not the only one too.
Thanks!
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tanoshii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 May 2007 Posts: 20 Location: ,
Thanks For the Support Posted: 05-21-07 19:52pm
Thanks for the support guys.
Like I said my husband is quite a nice
person..and sure loves me a lot.
As long as you have people around you who
adore you for the person you are, any kind
of asymmetry does not matter.
Thanks again.
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penis21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jul 2007 Posts: 6
Posted: 07-07-07 07:05am
i wouldn't mind at all do u have a pic?
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Tylanas
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Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
Thanks: 3
Thanked:0
Posted: 07-07-07 11:02am
This isn't a dating site.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 07-08-07 15:13pm
penis21
wrote:
i wouldn't mind at all do u
have a pic?
We do not post those kinds of pictures
here.
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joy2011
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2007 Posts: 8 Location: kentucky
Posted: 07-08-07 17:40pm
Hey I have the same problem its noticeable
but my boyfriend is
fine with it he said he doesnt mind as
long as he gets to play with
them and stuff.. but my left one is a lil
bit bigger then my right and I have
had people say mean things and make fun of
me and it made me
sooo self conscious about my boobs...that
I wouldnt show my boyfriend
for the longest time but hearin all this
stuff makes me soo much better
cause I know that Im not the only one...
Joy Mclaughlin
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raz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 6
Posted: 07-09-07 17:13pm
As long as its not god awful noticeable i
don't care.
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-13-07 18:20pm
HealthySex
wrote:
I as a male can comment that
it would not bother me at all. In fact,
when you care about someone it's little
imperfections that become endearing
qualities.
agreed...i will openly admit i'm not 100%
symmetrical..it isn't really
noticeable..but since my bf and I are
intimate, he can tell...it really isn't
uncommon for a girl to be slightly
imperfect in that area
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