I'm Disgusting And Don't Deserve to Live. Posted: 05-10-07 10:41am
I am a doing it fat and ugly failure. I
just want to rip my fat off. I hate
myself. I feel like a monster. I just wish
I was pretty.
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jason2jr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 28 Location: Paramount, CA, 90723 US
Posted: 05-10-07 12:03pm
I dont know if you know this, but only you
can change what ever you think is wrong
with you. I just went through something
that had me feeling just like you. I was
diagnosed with a disease and I had to take
this medication that caused me to gain
over 50 pounds, gave me bad acne, and
changed my whole body. I felt like hiding
under a rock. I was ugly, fat and felt
like everyone was laughing at me. I had to
come to the realization that I had control
over this and with help from God, I could
overcome it. I stayed positive and started
eating better, going to the gym, and using
proactive for my skin condition. I am okay
with myself now. We will never be
satisfied with what we have no matter
what. The best thing to do is love
yourself and stay positive. Confidence is
key too. With confidence and just a little
time and effort...people will look up to
you. You just have to think it first and
everyone else will follow.
i know how you feel i feel like that as
well about myself but its only you who can
get rid of the weight. do what i did and
go to your doctor who will refer you to
your local dietician and they will give
you all the support and advise you need,
and it will be healthy eating that you'll
be given not any of them dont eat for
three days at a time crap.
its like stopping smoking you have to
really want to do it.
good luck if you want someone to moan to
just message me, ill help as much as i can
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entices1
Supporter
Joined: 25 Apr 2007 Posts: 120 Location: North Florida, USA
You Are Not a Wasted Existence Posted: 05-10-07 18:59pm
I've been looking for you--been worrying
about you.
What do you mean by "I want to be pretty"?
That means so many different things. You
know, you have the power to change your
life, you just have to take the first
step. Easy for me to say but I went
through what you're going through.
No one can change your life for you. You
have to decide on what you want, make some
sort of plan (which will change over time)
and go after it. If you really want
something then nothing will overcome you.
Good luck, my dear. I hope this helps.
NOW, GO TO IT!!!!
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florenciana
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 May 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 05-14-07 14:31pm
Emily!!! I'm sure you're not a monster!!!
And you shouldn't hate yourself because
you say you have a couple of pounds on!!!
It makes me angry that people would
actually put themselves down just because
they're not as skinny as other people!!!
Your worth is not on how you look, your
worth is on who you are!!! Take a step
back Emily, and really see yourself for
who you are....look at yourself with love
and compassion! Don't mistreat yourself!
Don't put yourself down!!! Really, just
look at yourself in the mirror and tell
yourself all of the beautiful things that
you have!! Remind yourself how good you
are, all the wonderful feelings and
emotions that you have, your intellect,
your curiosity, your ability to learn
things, you're talents--we're all born
with something that we're good at, praise
yourself!!!!!
I hope that you will see how wonderful you
are, and that you will take away those
negative thoughts out of your head!!!
We're all beautiful, as Christina Aguilera
says, and it doesn't matter who says
otherwise, as long as we know we
are...that's all that counts!!!! Keep your
head up and best of luck to you!!!
