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Q: What Should I Do?
asked by: alibabes on February 22nd, 2004
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Hi my names ali and im 17 years oldi been goin out with my boyfriend for
over a year my parents hate him but hes the nices guy ever. I was sub to get my period the 1st week in feb I got it on the 19 of feb but it only lasted a day and a half. I been getting really sick the past few weeks. What should I do
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JaidynsMama
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Take a test, that is the only way to know for sure.
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allusivepond
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Jaidyns mom is right u need to take a test to find out for sure and how come ur parents dont like him if he treats u very well.

From someone who cant wait to have a jellybean all of their own
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alibabes
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Yeah I know its just I don't know I have one hear im just scared to take it
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alibabes
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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I been best friends with him for awhile and they loved him but once they found out we were dating they hated him cuz hes not from the same background as me
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JaidynsMama
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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I would take the test first thing in the morning, like right as you wake up. Good luck!
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Darling
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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I know its scary honey but taking a test is the only way to find out for sure whether or not your pregnant or not. Were you having unprotected sex with him or is there any other reason you think you might be pregnant? Hope things work out
love
tanya
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alibabes
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Yeah well its to late I alreay took the test
are these things ever wrong?
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alibabes
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Someone please tell me that they took a test and it was wrong
please!!!!!!!!!! I dont care if your lieing 2 me lie away just please tell me there is hope still
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JaidynsMama
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Sweetie, there are rarely any false positives, you will be fine!
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Untimely Blessings
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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alibabes wrote:
someone please tell me that they took a test and it was wrong
please!!!!!!!!!! I dont care if your lieing 2 me lie away just please tell me there is hope still


listen to me, I understand that this is hard to take in. But seriously, and I don’t mean to be rude or mean, but you are pregnant, and there is not a damn thing wrong with that. The only “hope” that is still needed is that you learn to accept that you are now a mother, that is the world’s greatest blessings, never forget that!

Kelly
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alibabes
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Yeah I know but id ont know how to tell my boyfriend we been only goin out 16 months hes always been there 4 me but I duno how hes ganan react
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alibabes
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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I told my boyfriend and he handled it fine he took is better then I expected he wasnt jumping for joy but he he came over and made sure everything was ok and I was feeling ok. It scary how hes acting soo calm and im freaking out bout this. Am I wrong for being soo emotional? Do you guys think hes ganna continue to be like this the whole time or is hes just preparing me then going to break down or away or something. I mean hes only 18 years old and im 17 do you think we can make it? I never been sooo confussed in my whole life? What did you girls do or would do?
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mommabear16
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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I'm 15 ( 16 in march) and had a baby just 6 days ago. Im still in school (taking time off right now) and im making it....Its really really hard. But I can do it...I know I can.
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sdwood2
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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Hun you can only take it on day at a time. No one can know for sure. Good luck
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Jaydensmommy
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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My fiance and I are only 19 and we are doing great for ourselves!!! We have our own place, nice cars, great relationship. All it takes is a little determination and you can do anything!

~sara~
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alibabes
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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Thanks all you girls for your support! I know im ganna take things one day at a time. I wanna tell my parents but I duno when the best time is to tell them im soo afraid?
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Jaydensmommy
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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Believe me, I know it is hard. It feels so much better once the weight of keeping the secret has been lifted off your shoulders!!! I am sure not telling them is stressing you out. And that isn't good for you or the baby. I felt 100 times better after I told my parents (the day I found out). But steve didn't tell his for like a month. And that was even stressful. Once it was all said and done..I felt so much better. Most parents freak out at first (i got lucky mine didnt) but they usually get over it. And once they see their little grandchild..They will most likely melt!

~sara~
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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It is gonna be hard to tell your parents, but it is something that you are gonna have to do. Truthfully though I would go and take another test or go to the doctors first though just to be sure.

*praying and knowing that you will be ok, youll make a great mom after the inital shock!!*
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SweetCheeki17
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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Not to jump into any conclusion, are you postive sure that you are pregnant.. Make sure you go to the doctor and recheck again. It can be either your mind screwing you up or whatever. Not to be mean to all of you girls who already gave advice. Just go to the clinic and recheck again.. Then be overwhelm about anything in your life. I hope I helped

im such an fool
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