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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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What Should I Do?
Posted: 02-22-04 22:01pm
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Hi my names ali and im 17 years oldi been
goin out with my boyfriend for
over a year my parents hate him but hes
the nices guy ever. I was sub to get my
period the 1st week in feb I got it on the
19 of feb but it only lasted a day and a
half. I been getting really sick the past
few weeks. What should I do
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JaidynsMama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 34
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Posted: 02-22-04 22:02pm
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Take a test, that is the only way to know
for sure.
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 452
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Posted: 02-22-04 22:05pm
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Jaidyns mom is right u need to take a test
to find out for sure and how come ur
parents dont like him if he treats u very
well.
From someone who cant wait to have a
jellybean all of their own
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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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Posted: 02-22-04 22:07pm
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Yeah I know its just I don't know I have
one hear im just scared to take it
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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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Posted: 02-22-04 22:09pm
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I been best friends with him for awhile
and they loved him but once they found out
we were dating they hated him cuz hes not
from the same background as me
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JaidynsMama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 34
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Posted: 02-22-04 22:11pm
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I would take the test first thing in the
morning, like right as you wake up. Good
luck!
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 02-22-04 22:16pm
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I know its scary honey but taking a test
is the only way to find out for sure
whether or not your pregnant or not. Were
you having unprotected sex with him or is
there any other reason you think you might
be pregnant? Hope things work out
love
tanya
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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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Posted: 02-22-04 22:31pm
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Yeah well its to late I alreay took the
test
are these things ever wrong?
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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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Posted: 02-22-04 23:01pm
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Someone please tell me that they took a
test and it was wrong
please!!!!!!!!!! I dont care if your
lieing 2 me lie away just please tell me
there is hope still
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JaidynsMama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 34
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Posted: 02-22-04 23:02pm
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Sweetie, there are rarely any false
positives, you will be fine!
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 383
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Posted: 02-22-04 23:07pm
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| alibabes
wrote: | someone please tell me that
they took a test and it was wrong
please!!!!!!!!!! I dont care if your
lieing 2 me lie away just please tell me
there is hope
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listen to me, I understand that this is
hard to take in. But seriously, and I
don’t mean to be rude or mean, but you are
pregnant, and there is not a damn thing
wrong with that. The only “hope” that is
still needed is that you learn to accept
that you are now a mother, that is the
world’s greatest blessings, never forget
that!
Kelly
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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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Posted: 02-22-04 23:21pm
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Yeah I know but id ont know how to tell my
boyfriend we been only goin out 16 months
hes always been there 4 me but I duno how
hes ganan react
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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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Posted: 02-23-04 00:05am
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I told my boyfriend and he handled it fine
he took is better then I expected he wasnt
jumping for joy but he he came over and
made sure everything was ok and I was
feeling ok. It scary how hes acting soo
calm and im freaking out bout this. Am I
wrong for being soo emotional? Do you
guys think hes ganna continue to be like
this the whole time or is hes just
preparing me then going to break down or
away or something. I mean hes only 18
years old and im 17 do you think we can
make it? I never been sooo confussed in
my whole life? What did you girls do or
would do?
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-23-04 00:14am
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I'm 15 ( 16 in march) and had a baby just
6 days ago. Im still in school (taking
time off right now) and im making
it....Its really really hard. But I can
do it...I know I can.
Last edited by mommabear16 on 02-23-04 00:36am; edited 1 time in total
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sdwood2
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2004
Posts: 645
Location: KY
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Posted: 02-23-04 00:27am
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Hun you can only take it on day at a time.
No one can know for sure. Good luck
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1701
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-23-04 01:28am
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My fiance and I are only 19 and we are
doing great for ourselves!!! We have our
own place, nice cars, great relationship.
All it takes is a little determination
and you can do anything!
~sara~
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alibabes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2004
Posts: 18
Location: long island
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Posted: 02-23-04 01:44am
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Thanks all you girls for your support! I
know im ganna take things one day at a
time. I wanna tell my parents but I duno
when the best time is to tell them im soo
afraid?
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1701
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-23-04 01:51am
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Believe me, I know it is hard. It feels
so much better once the weight of keeping
the secret has been lifted off your
shoulders!!! I am sure not telling them
is stressing you out. And that isn't
good for you or the baby. I felt 100
times better after I told my parents (the
day I found out). But steve didn't tell
his for like a month. And that was even
stressful. Once it was all said and
done..I felt so much better. Most
parents freak out at first (i got lucky
mine didnt) but they usually get over it.
And once they see their little
grandchild..They will most likely melt!
~sara~
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-23-04 09:01am
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It is gonna be hard to tell your parents,
but it is something that you are gonna
have to do. Truthfully though I would go
and take another test or go to the doctors
first though just to be sure.
*praying and knowing that you will be ok,
youll make a great mom after the inital
shock!!*
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004
Posts: 268
Location: new york
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Posted: 02-23-04 11:24am
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Not to jump into any conclusion, are you
postive sure that you are pregnant.. Make
sure you go to the doctor and recheck
again. It can be either your mind
screwing you up or whatever. Not to be
mean to all of you girls who already gave
advice. Just go to the clinic and recheck
again.. Then be overwhelm about anything
in your life. I hope I helped
im such an fool
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