Yes, I am going to be twenty and about five years ago I started having the hardest time wearing any eyeshadow or eye make-up at all because my eyelids would SWELL! I guess I wore my make-up too much and the chemicals just irritated the sensitive skin of my eyelids to where they will never be the same since I still have to deal with it. I have tried so many different mascaras, eyelines, and eyeshadows, and have had NO luck! Now, I use Physician Formula eyeliner (which is excellent) and mascara...but is always makes my lashes fall and that is no good, but it is pretty good about not irritating my eyelids.
Tyr to stay away from "talc" materials in the make-up. Look in the ingredients on the back of the products. Most of Physician Formula's products are talc-free so maybe try that. But, "hypo-allergenic" doesn't cut it for me. Hope this helps somewhat.