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mina
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sparklypixie12
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mina
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Thanks for biting your tongue, it was very much appreciated. 
so if I do decide to go ahead with a termination, it will be done in an actual abortion clinic, not my locl hospital? Do I pay for it? Me and the father are going to be talking about all the options (adoption is definately still an option).
You see the problem is, I was on the pill. D'ya reckon I can sue mycrogynon? I know, it's no laughing matter. Thanks for all your help again
so if I do decide to go ahead with a termination, it will be done in an actual abortion clinic, not my locl hospital? Do I pay for it? Me and the father are going to be talking about all the options (adoption is definately still an option).
You see the problem is, I was on the pill. D'ya reckon I can sue mycrogynon? I know, it's no laughing matter. Thanks for all your help again
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sparklypixie12
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mina
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Thanks alot again 
i'm going to the father's tonight for a full discussion of what to do..... I'll let you know what we're doing. *crosses fingers*
i'm going to the father's tonight for a full discussion of what to do..... I'll let you know what we're doing. *crosses fingers*
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sparklypixie12
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KissyBai912
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I hope he's a supportive guy too. I really do hope that you give adoption a lot of thought though. It's just that abortion seems to tragic and final. It makes me wanna cry. Especially since if you wanted too, you could hear your sweet little babie's heartbeat right now. I understand that this is not a good time in your life to have children but please please please truly think this through. Think of everyone it could or would affect. The baby, you, the father, your family, his family, and maybe, if you gave the baby up for adoption, you could make two people the happiest they have ever been. I don't know much about abortions in the uk but I still really want you to think this through. But best of luck in whatever you decide. 
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mina
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Ok....
So I told the father on monday and at first he was a bit "oh caca". So we decided that I would stay at his last night to discuss what we should do. After alot of talking we've decided to keep the baby. And when I say "keep the baby", I mean keep it, not give it up for adoption. I'm gonna be a mummy :d we've worked everything out and he seems really pleased. We've decided we don't want to become a couple just for the sake of the baby, but he does want to be a full time dad, not just a part time one, so we're going to discuss finding a flat together so he can be with his son/daughter all the time. We're both going to take a gap year from uni to try and make some money and his family are quite well off so he's quite confident his parents will help out. We just have to tell everyone now. Oh dear!
I can't believe how well he's taken it. He keeps touching my belly all the time. Crazy guy. The cutest thing was last night he woke me up and said he couldn't sleep becasue he couldn't stop thinking about what a good daddy he's going to be. Awwww. So there we are. I've stopped drinking and smoking, but i'm slightly nervous about a scan becasue between the time of conception and when I found out I was pregnant I had drunk quite alot of alcohol and i'm scared about what effect that will have on the baby. *crosses fingers*
i just wanted to thank everyone for all the support they gave me. *big hugs*. All the best
So I told the father on monday and at first he was a bit "oh caca". So we decided that I would stay at his last night to discuss what we should do. After alot of talking we've decided to keep the baby. And when I say "keep the baby", I mean keep it, not give it up for adoption. I'm gonna be a mummy :d we've worked everything out and he seems really pleased. We've decided we don't want to become a couple just for the sake of the baby, but he does want to be a full time dad, not just a part time one, so we're going to discuss finding a flat together so he can be with his son/daughter all the time. We're both going to take a gap year from uni to try and make some money and his family are quite well off so he's quite confident his parents will help out. We just have to tell everyone now. Oh dear!
I can't believe how well he's taken it. He keeps touching my belly all the time. Crazy guy. The cutest thing was last night he woke me up and said he couldn't sleep becasue he couldn't stop thinking about what a good daddy he's going to be. Awwww. So there we are. I've stopped drinking and smoking, but i'm slightly nervous about a scan becasue between the time of conception and when I found out I was pregnant I had drunk quite alot of alcohol and i'm scared about what effect that will have on the baby. *crosses fingers*
i just wanted to thank everyone for all the support they gave me. *big hugs*. All the best
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sammisa
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Oh im sooooo happy for you >. Thank you for deciding upon that!! Seee .. He wasn't upset 
oh man.. I just wish I could hug ya through the computer... Welllll, I have 4 children of my own, and I almost lost one when he was only 9 months old, so it really hurts me to the point of tears when I hear someone wants to have an abortion, plus feeling the baby kicking inside of you is the best feeling you will ever have !!! You should be feeling that in a couple of weeks if you aren't already.. Oh im sooo excited for you .. Good luck to you !!!!!
oh man.. I just wish I could hug ya through the computer... Welllll, I have 4 children of my own, and I almost lost one when he was only 9 months old, so it really hurts me to the point of tears when I hear someone wants to have an abortion, plus feeling the baby kicking inside of you is the best feeling you will ever have !!! You should be feeling that in a couple of weeks if you aren't already.. Oh im sooo excited for you .. Good luck to you !!!!!
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rach16
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2ferano
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sparklypixie12
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KissyBai912
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sparklypixie12
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