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it's not worth it....

I am sorry beck. Maybe he will come around in time (if that's what you want). I prolly would've done the same thing.

Sometimes men need a little reality check

I hope that this all works out for you .Becky, you are an amazing woman and mother just remember that. Stay strong and make sure that he goes and if he doesn't then perhaps could you arange for one of his friends to come and get all of his stuff because it's really not fair on you, you've got enough on your plate with those two gorgeous little children of yours

well i have given him an ultimatum of 'you prove you word is worth something before i take you back'

I 100% agree with you, if he believe that you are worth fighting for then he will fight to the death and do anything for you