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Tanis

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I Dont Know Who I Am
Posted: 05-09-07 03:27am

I am 17 years old and I have a life that some only dream of.
I have wonderful parents who are very supportive, a boyfriend who loves me who wants nothing more then to make me smile, a bed to sleep in, and food in the fridge. But for some reason Im still not happy.

I am very mature for my age. I know it and many people have told me.
I understand life, and everything that goes with it. But I am always sad.
I relized that I do not know who I am
..
I dont know what I want out of life
I dont know where I want to be
I dont know what I like and dis-like
I dont even know what my favorite color is..
Everybody knows there favorite color.. right?

I know that everyone goes through this in life, and I am sure it will take a long time to figure myself out. I see people, like my parents and my boyfriend, who know what they want to do in life, and what they want out of it. My Father said it took him a while to figure it all out, but my boyfriend is only 22 and he has it all figured out. I just have a strong urge to get this all figured out, right now, at this point in my life.
I need a hobby
I need a career choice
I need some wants
I just dont know where to start looking.
I have been so upset about this latly, that all I can do is lay in bed, or sit infront of the t.v
I have lost all interest in anything

I really do need a hobby. But I have tryed so many different things and none of them fit me
I dont have a creative mind
I dont have an orginized mind
I dont have a physical body
I am just so... soo.... BLAH
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emilymarie137

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Hey
Posted: 05-10-07 10:13am

Why is this post in the depression forum? Go talk to a career helper person.
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meblonde01

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Re: I Dont Know Who I Am
Posted: 05-10-07 10:24am

Tanis wrote:
I am 17 years old and I have a life that some only dream of.
I have wonderful parents who are very supportive, a boyfriend who loves me who wants nothing more then to make me smile, a bed to sleep in, and food in the fridge. But for some reason Im still not happy.

I am very mature for my age. I know it and many people have told me.
I understand life, and everything that goes with it. But I am always sad.
I relized that I do not know who I am
..
I dont know what I want out of life
I dont know where I want to be
I dont know what I like and dis-like
I dont even know what my favorite color is..
Everybody knows there favorite color.. right?

I know that everyone goes through this in life, and I am sure it will take a long time to figure myself out. I see people, like my parents and my boyfriend, who know what they want to do in life, and what they want out of it. My Father said it took him a while to figure it all out, but my boyfriend is only 22 and he has it all figured out. I just have a strong urge to get this all figured out, right now, at this point in my life.
I need a hobby
I need a career choice
I need some wants
I just dont know where to start looking.
I have been so upset about this latly, that all I can do is lay in bed, or sit infront of the t.v
I have lost all interest in anything

I really do need a hobby. But I have tryed so many different things and none of them fit me
I dont have a creative mind
I dont have an orginized mind
I dont have a physical body
I am just so... soo.... BLAH

Tanis,,
I just thought about this the other day what really is my favorite color.. and I could not come up with just one color, so I don't know my favorite color either. And I way older than you..
I do think you may have some sort of depression. Did you use to have a hobby you liked and now just don't do it? Or have you never one.
All the things you say you never had, did you once have? If so then yes you are going through some form of depression.. If not, I would say just try and thing of something you might like and give it a try. If it isn't for you think of another one to try.
Though out my years of life. I have tried several things just to find out it was not for me.
I do think it might be a good idea to talk to a consular. May at school. Don't keep if bottled up talk about it.. even in here will help!
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meblonde01

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Re: Hey
Posted: 05-10-07 10:25am

emilymarie137 wrote:
Why is this post in the depression forum? Go talk to a career helper person.


becase this person has signs of depression that is why she in her smarty! She is only 17 I don't think she is looking for a career. Rolling Eyes
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greekjohn

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Joined: 10 Dec 2006
Posts: 100
Location: Toronto, Ontario,

Posted: 05-13-07 21:28pm

Hey OP I messaged you umm check your inbox and get back to me if you want to talk, I'm going through a similar thing
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Ebabe14

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Joined: 14 May 2007
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Location: Phoenix
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Posted: 05-14-07 01:10am

Very common feelings you have. Lots of anxiety, which leads to depression. Can stem from uncertainty, etc.


Like most chronic conditions and their symptoms, there is not one single cause for depression. Rather, there are several different factors which can contribute to and cause depression. When depression is not a by-product of external events, it is called endogenous, meaning “originating from within.” This kind of depression is believed to be fundamentally due to biochemical abnormalities,specifically an altered balance of the neurotransmitters serotonin, norepinephrine, and dopamine. This imbalance may occur in a number of different ways.
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