Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 27 Location: Paramount, CA, 90723 US
Question For Sexual Preditors...i Know You Are Out There!! Posted: 05-08-07 21:13pm
What in your deluted minds make you feel
its okay to ruin the life of what couldve
been a perfectly normal person? I mean is
it really that hard to find a woman or is
it just the sick kick of taking advantage
of a child or a vulnerable woman? I am the
survivor (not victim) of incest. My
biological Father raped me and mind messed
me for at least 11 years of my life. I was
beautiful, smart, talented, creative.... I
could go on and on. Now I am not capable
of holden a steady job nor man. I have
depression, anxiety, im over weight,
basically scarred for life. Im ruined. I
just needed to vent so sorry for the tart
choice of words but....
SO medical question YOU...medical question
YOU VERY MUCH!!!
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Ninjight
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2007 Posts: 10
Re: Question For Sexual Preditors...i Know You Are Out There Posted: 05-08-07 22:26pm
Just to be clear i am not a pedaphile,
incest rapist, or someone who takes
advantages of a young person. However,
what i have to say might interest you.
Firstly, a sexual predator most likely
will not venture to this site since they
dont think they have a problem only an
urge.
You must understand not for their benefit
but for your own, sexual predators are
most commonly very evil and twisted in the
mind. Perhaps someone raped them or
molested them or abused them in some way,
its a cycle, Your angry and its surely
better to be angry then hide away.
Focus your anger on healing, focus on
becoming greater than the suffering you
have endured. You can be better, you can
hold a job and a partner. Believe in
yourself and hold purity in your heart and
you shall be free.
jason2jr
wrote:
What in your deluted minds
make you feel its okay to ruin the life of
what couldve been a perfectly normal
person? I mean is it really that hard to
find a woman or is it just the sick kick
of taking advantage of a child or a
vulnerable woman? I am the survivor (not
victim) of incest. My biological Father
raped me and mind !@#^ed me for at least
11 years of my life. I was beautiful,
smart, talented, creative.... I could go
on and on. Now I am not capable of holden
a steady job nor man. I have depression,
anxiety, im over weight, basically scarred
for life. Im ruined. I just needed to vent
so sorry for the tart choice of words
but....
SO !@#^ YOU...!@#^ YOU VERY
MUCH!!!
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lolcakes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2007 Posts: 5 Location: England
Posted: 05-10-07 18:09pm
I agree that they're scum, quite probably
the lowest kind. I seriously would like to
see each and every one of them slowly
castrated.
All I can really say here is that these
lowlifes are beyond selfish, but there
isn't just one kind of predator. Some of
them are abuse victims themselves, a
bitter few have warped desires for
vengeance (what@them) or quite simply they
want what they can't have.
They prefer the opposite of consent? I
mean, people are born without limbs,
organs or born with horrid diseases...
who's to say that someone can't be born or
grow up to be without a conscience or with
a desire to inflict pain?
Also, not to say I can relate in any way,
but this certainly won't be the
destruction of your future if you keep on
fighting that negativity it's left behind.
There are others who've been in your
situation, people who've not managed to
pull through and those who have. In your
situation I'd like to think I would take
some notes from the people who have pulled
through and made a better future for
themselves, and I hope you do, too.
A friend once said to me, "Carry on,
sometimes that's all you have" and it
might not seem like much but hey, nothing
good can happen if you don't let it.
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futurelovers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 101
Posted: 05-10-07 18:47pm
A lot has to do with how each one of them
has been raised and what kind of
environment and circumstances they lived
in. There are also biological and chemical
imbalance issues in the brain that create
extremes in psychological behavior.
Your best bet would be to educate yourself
and become good at avoiding encounters
with people who you feel might hurt you.
Your social intuition can save you, or get
you in trouble. The only way to develop it
is to put yourself into social situations
as much as possible and learn from them.
Start by interacting more with your family
and then your close friends. Soon you will
understand that there are some people in
this world who have some problems, and you
will need to keep as far away from them as
possible. I would suggest get away from
your father...
