so sorry to hear about all the bfn's going around. it always seems like when your trying everyone around you is getting preg. except you. i went to home depot with my dh today and saw 3 ladies all nicely round and ready to pop. makes you wonder if we are the only ones out there who are having a hard time getting there. i still have not got af....2 weeks past and i am wondering.... never read the internet if you are not sure whats going on...it makes things worse.

ok so i got on and looked up spotting during early pregnancy. have any of you ever heard of ectopic or molar pregnancy? i hadn't. my dh was freakin out and told me to stop looking. this is what it said:
Ectopic Pregnancy
Another problem that may cause pain and bleeding in early pregnancy is ectopic pregnancy. If pregnancy occurs in a fallopian tube, it may burst. Ectopic pregnancies are much less common than miscarriages. They occur in about one in 60 pregnancies.
What is a Molar Pregnancy?
A molar pregnancy occurs when chromosomal abnormalities prevent the pregnancy from developing properly. There are two possible types; a complete and an incomplete molar pregnancy. An incomplete molar pregnancy forms an embryo that halts development, while a complete molar pregnancy develops a strange placenta and no fetus. It occurs when the nucleus of an egg is either lost or inactivated, causing the sperm to duplicate itself because the egg is lacking genetic information. This results in lack of fetus, placenta and amniotic membranes. The uterus will then grow rapidly, leading to bleeding into the uterine cavity or to vaginal bleeding.
A partial mole is more frequent and occurs when two sperm fertilize the same egg, causing partial placentas, membranes, or even a fetus present in a partial mole. This will often cause genetic problems with baby.