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Posted: 05-08-07 08:42am
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I'm sorry, I just really don't have anyone
else to talk to about all this stuff....
I just got a call from my dh. He is
already on his way home from work for the
day (at 9:30am) He left at 12 noon
yesterday. His boss told him today that we
will know by the end of the week if he is
shutting the doors or not.  I'm just absolutely
flipping out. He said that his truck is
making this god aweful noise and he took
it to his freind thats a mechanic and he
said it is a main bearing. And that we
should sell now. I hardly make any money
at my job and there are two other people
that will probably be advanced before me
now. Even though I was promiced when I
took a lesser position that I would get
the next available postition 
My mom just started chimo on Monday and is
feeling horrible, which is tearing me
apart because she is my best friend. I
just feel so upside down. Everything is
falling apart! And for the cherry on top
we've been ttc. And even though I have
this cyst and am probably not pregnant, I
still could be pregnant....I just don't
know what to do! I'm just going to sit
here at my desk at work and cry.....I need
a hug....and a drink....
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Posted: 05-08-07 08:46am
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Im sorry everything seems to be caving in
on you right now. I had the same round of
that last week. I am still trying to real
myself in from everything that was going
on.
What kind of work does your dh do that
they would close the doors? I'm sure if
they do, he will be able to find another
job quickly.
I hope you feel better soon. ***Hugs***
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-08-07 08:51am
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Well, he is a lot of things to his current
company. Is official title is project
manager. He does aluminum fabrication. He
does the autocad for it the actual welding
and the instalation. He'll find a job
right away. No doubt about that he's one
of the best in his field. But he had just
decided last night that we are going to
get an apartment instead of a house
because we aren't sure if we want to stay
here or not. And he needs a strong work
history for us to get in somewhere.
Working somewhere for 2 weeks doesn't look
good when applying for an apartment.
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Bridget
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Posted: 05-08-07 09:05am
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i'm so sorry you're going through so much
at once.
that's good that your husband will be able
to get another job quickly though. if the
place he works now is closing, don't you
think he could point that out to the
people at the apartments you look at? i'm
assuming he worked there for a good amount
of time and it's not his fault he had to
find a new job. i don't really know how it
all works.
i hope your mom feels better soon.
margaritas all around?
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-08-07 10:02am
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A margarita sounds perfect right now!!!
Everyone's invited!!
The only good thing is that if they go
under, he'll qualify for unemployment
until he finds a job that is what he
wants. He wont have to settle for
something he'll hate and just end up
quiting in a few weeks.
I'm just really emotional and it seems
like there is just to much to handle but I
know its really not that bad. I'm just a
weak person.
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Posted: 05-08-07 10:08am
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thats all horrible,i'm sorry chrissy! I
hope things get better.
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Posted: 05-08-07 10:08am
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I would love to come to the margarita
party!!!! I have the margarita set that I
got for a wedding present!!! I need about
4 really strong ones right now.
I feel you on the emotional feelings right
now. I am sooo stressed at work it's not
even funny.
I think there is a saying out there like
"it always gets worse before it gets
better!!!" I just hope the worst is over
now for both of us.
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Posted: 05-08-07 10:10am
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I'm sorry your going through all this
right now. Project Managers are needed
everywhere (It's what I'm taking in the
fall  ) It's too bad you
guys weren't up here. My company is
looking for project managers in montreal,
Toronto, Calgary and Burnaby (British
Columbia) The pay is GRRRRRREAT! too.
I'm not too sure what to tell you. I know
how it feels to have the weight of the
world on your shoulders. The girls are
always here for a shoulder to cry on
though.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-08-07 10:14am
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Thanks guys. It really means alot to me
that you are here for me to cry to. I just
really don't have anyone else. My mom is
the last person I want to put any stress
on and if she thought she was causing my
hurt she would feel horrible. And if I say
anything to my dh he will just feel like
he is letting me down and I don't want
that either. I just really appreciate it
you guys. Thank you.
Ps I actually really want to move to
canada. I'm trying to talk my dh into
it...but I don't think its going to
happen.
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Posted: 05-08-07 10:16am
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you are not a weak person!
you have a lot going on right now,
especially with your mom, and on top of
everything you're in pain.
you know we're always here for you!
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Posted: 05-08-07 10:27am
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Awww that's tough. Hang in there Christy.
You'll get through it. Hopefully things
will start turning around for you soon.
You sound so thoughtful and so strong.
Your husband and mom are so fortunate to
have your support. It will get better,
but we are definately here for you in the
meantime.
Chrissy
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Posted: 05-08-07 12:03pm
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Thanks ladies for the words of
encouragement. I really needed them!
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Posted: 05-08-07 18:31pm
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I am so sorry that things are going so
wrong for you! You are always so good or
at least seem so good at helping others!
I know that when I became disabled and my
hubby lost his job I learned that things
happened for a reason and now my hubby has
a better job and can be here to help me
more which kind of bothers me because I
have always been so independent. My
thoughts are with you and your dh! I hope
your .Mom does okay, she too is in my
thoughts, I know it is hard for you right
now, I understand!
Know that we are here for you!
Big Hugz!
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Posted: 05-08-07 18:38pm
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im sorry things are crappy, i swear its
something in the air bleh
i dont really know what to say though,
that just all around sucks, things will
get better though, they have to right?
your a good person, i dont see why all the
bad things have to happen to all the good
people
if you ever need to vent im here for you,
id bake youa cake but i dont think itd
hold up to well in the mail
~alicia~
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-08-07 19:33pm
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Thank you all so much. It means so much
too me that you would take the time to
read and respond to this. I just really
needed someone to be there for me....and I
appreciate it.
On a good note....we traded in his truck
after work and got a '01 Jeep Grand
Cherokee so that's better. But nothing
else. And now he is throwing a fit about
me getting a second job. So blah....
Thank you all
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Posted: 05-08-07 19:49pm
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we love you christy! we're all here for
you  i hope you get to
get a second job if you really want it
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