I Posted a Message About An Abusive Neighbor Posted: 05-08-07 03:03am
I went to my friends house and when i got
home there was a message from my neighbor
saying wow your walk took all day health
forum. My husband is getting upset with
me telling me to tell her off. But I am
afraid for me and my daughter. If I say
something to her she blows up and starts
cussing me out in front of my daughter.
Yesterday morning she tried to come up and
hug me like nothing had ever happened when
i told her to back off she flipped out on
me. I cannot live like this any more. I
have called the cops and they didn't do
anything they told her to leave me alone
and that was it but that just made it
worse. My husband works all the time and
when she has said stuff to me in front of
him he didn't even stand up for me. I feel
like I am trapped. She lives right across
the street so she can see when I am home
or not. And if I am gone all day she
leaves horrible messages on the phone. She
has gone as far as calling my friends
house and asking me what I am doing over
there and telling me that she is going to
call the cops. The thing is I am not doing
anything wrong I am just not home where
she can see what I am doing. IF I leave my
house then she wants to know where i am
going. THere was one time I wasn't home
and I swear she went into my house when I
wasn't there. I cannot prove it but I left
my IM on and when I got home it was signed
out. Like I said I cannot prove it. The
only thing my husband said was to leave
her be. I have done that she is
approaching me. Like I said I am getting
scared of what might happen in a manic
state. On top of that she is taking pain
killers when they aren't prescribed to her
so she is stoned most of the time. LIke I
have said before she screams out in front
of the whole neighborhood calling me
names. I have gone to the office and told
them about it but they did nothing. I
really want to move but that is not
feesible at this time. I am about to go on
vaction I am afraid of what i might come
home to. I really don't talk to my
neighbors that much so if she was in my
house no one would know or say anything.
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dynamicdebz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 41 Location: Sheffield, UK
Posted: 05-09-07 17:45pm
I noticed you have already started a
thread with this problem on, it will be
better to stick to one thread about same
problem, otherwise people who are advicing
you will get confused.
I feel for you & understand your
problem but this is a health forum, so
apart from advicing you on feeling down or
your neighbour physcologoical problems I
think you are in the wrong place.
I ave just put NUISANCE NEIGHBOUR FORUM in
google & there seems to be loads
there.
Good luck!
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Willa Weintraub
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 3399 Location: The Beach!
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Posted: 05-10-07 12:33pm
I would keep goint to the police and save
the messages she leaves you.Even though
you do not talk to your neighbors go to
one and ask if they will watch for out her
and your house while you are gone,at last
for a small piece of mind.they must know
this woman is insano so i'm sure they
would be happy to help.good luck.
