If he said this in the 'heat of the moment' there is a good chance that he didnt mean it. Give him some time to cool off then go talk to him. Make sure that this talk doesnt turn into a fight though. Apologize to him, ask him if he really meant what he said. If he did well there might not be much that you can do. Atleast try to work things out! Good luck. Hth
shannon

Thanks, every time when I try to talk to him he just walks away, he never talks about it and then later on we end up fighting about it again. It not the first time he said that to me though.

If he walks away that means hes not ready yet. Eventually he'll come to you. Just give him his space. You could tell him that you want to talk to him but only when hes ready. Good luck!
Shannon

Thanks for listening, I hope we can work things out.

I hope things work out for you, I know how you feel I am having problems with my bf right now too.

Its probably just the jitters of being together for a long time. I cant say this will be the last time you will argue because it does happen alot. To every couple not just you. He most likely said this out of anger and did not mean it. I know when im angry I say mean things too, to jose even though I wanted to take them back. But thats how men are, they like to leave things up in the air and never resolve things. Unlike women, we like to take care of the problem right away. But because you havent talked it out and worked things out, its another problem waiting to happen. Stand up to him and tell him you need to talk now, he cant walk away and he cant ignore you and he cant pout, you two are in everything together and will soon be "one" so make sure he knows this. I read about this in cosmo about engaged couples arguments happen alot. So its not uncommon. I hope you work things out!

Thanks you guys are the best. I hope we can work through this are lease is up at the end of march. He said he is tired of the way I treat him and that he wants to be who he wants to be, wether thats nevering being home or not.

I know how you feel. Jose says the same thing. Because he does things that irritate me. So give him a choice, to somewhat scare him. Say you are leaving and never coming back because you two cant get along. I did that and thats what made jose change for good. I still get mad over the small things, like he licks his fingers, wont clean teh toilet seat, hes loud, hes stubborn, things like that! But im working on it, and it will be ok for you too. You arent alone, but things will get better