Ok, my friend chris, he is great and all, I mean, he's been here for me through out this whole pregnancy and I don't want anyone to think that I don't appreciate him. But here lately he is just getting to be too much. I mean, he calls every morning and wakes me up, and acts offended if I don't want to talk. And then, my mom brings him to my child birth classes even after I told him I didn't want him to go. I told my mom this when it was too late, but she just said she doesn't understand why I wouldn't want him to go. And he's helping my mom with my baby shower on saturday, and she and he have this idea that he is going to be in the room when I am in labor. I don't want to hurt his feeling but I really don't want him there and he is just around too much. He doesn't seem to understand that I would like to have some time to myself befire the baby gets here.....Cuz once he's here I will have zero time for me! And it is really weird, because he is constantly buying stuff for josh. And don't think I don't really appreciate this, but he is starting to act like josh is his baby! And everytime he even gets near my stomach I push his hand away. I guess it wouldn't be so bad if this guy didn't have a history of liking me on and off. But worst thing is, my mom loves him and brings him over and stuff without even asking me! I know she means well but I kind of wish she would back off and mind her own too. Am I over-reacting or is this really too much? Anyone have any ideas on how I can tell them to back off without seeming like a complete health forum? Any ideas on what I can do to make it seem not so bad? I really appreciate his support but it's almost like he's trying to take dewitt's place.....It kind of creeps me out.


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