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Q: Am I Pregnant?
asked by: mad_maddie on May 7th, 2007
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Hi. I was just wodering if i could be pregnant. I had sex( unprotected, i know bad me) on the 8th of may. i should of had my period on the 25th. its almost 2 weeks late today. I'm gona try and get a test tonite.
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mc4ever02
replied on May 7th, 2007
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Did you mean the 8th of April? If you are already late you should test. Let us know how it goes!
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mad_maddie
replied on May 8th, 2007
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Well I took the test last night....... it was positive Shocked . I kinda been freaking out all day. I mean i knew it could happen. I knew he should have worn protection, or atleast not nut in me ( sorry if thats to graphic). I just didnt think it would.

Yea i ment Apr 8th.

ANy advice on how to break the knews to my parents?
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mc4ever02
replied on May 8th, 2007
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Congratulations!!!

How old are you? Have you told the father yet?
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familyjewels
replied on May 8th, 2007
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Theres a few diffrent ways you can tell you parents.

The old "blurt it out" method seems to work if your parents arnt the type to go nuclear.

i used the letter method to tell my brother. just write a letter explaning the situation.

if your still in School, you could tell a teacher or a guidence counsler and see if they can help you tell your parents. also you can tell a sibling and have them help.

if ya wanta talk, feel free to pm me. Congratz and GL.
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mad_maddie
replied on May 8th, 2007
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thanks for the advice familyjewels. im pretty tight with my dad ( yea im a daddys girl), so im thinking i might just blurt it out at dinner or something. I know hes gona be dissapointed, but i think hell come threw.

to answer mc4ever02, 15 and the situation with the father is a little aqward at the moment. I do plan on telling him, we just need to work some things out first.

thahnks for all teh support.
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mc4ever02
replied on May 8th, 2007
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Your parents might be disappointed at first. But they love you and they'll come around eventually. We have a young lady on here danni (dannzibelle) who is 15 and 33 weeks pregnant with a little girl. You might want to pm her. She is super sweet and has a ton of great advice.

Good luck, feel free to stick around. We have a pregnancy and pregnancy community chat forum. I look forward to seeing you around!
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Dannzibelle
replied on May 8th, 2007
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Hey i'm .Danni and i'm 33 weeks pregnant with a little girl and i'm also 15. There is no easy way to tell your parents because no matter what they will be disapointed, only you know how the best way for them to take it will be. For me my mum guessed and wrote me a letter, kinda freaked me out at the time because i didn't even know i was pregnant when she wrote it lol. A letter is a good idea because then it gives them the chance to come to terms with it a little before actually talking to you about it. Just remember that no one can pressure you into anything, you do what's right for you
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HcoBrunette06
replied on May 8th, 2007
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i love you dani.


Razz

you're a great role model... im just proud of you.
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Dannzibelle
replied on May 9th, 2007
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HcoBrunette06 wrote:
i love you dani.


Razz

you're a great role model... im just proud of you.

Big *hugs* and *smooches*
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Jules
replied on May 9th, 2007
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Mad_maddie and familyjewels are you two friends?
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Kia
replied on May 9th, 2007
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You two should meet up because you're definately at the same school/college.

psst purest...
admin know about the troll so you can go ahead and delete those posts if you want hun =)
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Jules
replied on May 9th, 2007
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Kia wrote:
You two should meet up because you're definately at the same school/college.

psst purest...
admin know about the troll so you can go ahead and delete those posts if you want hun =)


.Thanks m'dear! I'm being a bit slow today - littlun is 'helping' me on the computer Rolling Eyes
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familyjewels
replied on May 9th, 2007
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how did you guys know?

we were talking on MSN this morning and it turns out she goes to the same school district as me ( im in MS, shes in HS, but the buildings are like a football field apart).
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HcoBrunette06
replied on May 9th, 2007
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Sad

wow.
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Jules
replied on May 9th, 2007
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You both have the same IP address.

So how did you guys end up chatting on MSN? Life's full of strange coincidences, isn't it? At least you've got someone nearby to go through all the pregnancy stuff with, hey? Smile
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familyjewels
replied on May 9th, 2007
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we talked threw a few emails, thenwe exchanged MSN sn's. I sent her a pic of me this morning ( like 7 am i couldn't sleep Sad ) and she recognized me from the school bus. Small world.
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Kia
replied on May 10th, 2007
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PurestGreen wrote:
You both have the same IP address.


it is a library addy though.
it is possible to go to the same school and not know each other
it is possible to use the same school bus and not know each other
it is possible to live a couple streets apart and not know each other

all this is possible but not likely.
no-one is accusing anyone of being fake (although it happens a lot on here), we just want to know who we are talking to.

For the record, you do not have to be pregnant to join here.
anyone is welcome in the pregnancy community chat area - so long as they are courteous.
people have built good friendships here, but it does come down to honesty.

If you are being honest then you have absolutely nothing to worry yourself about.

If you aren't been totally forward with the truth - then it will become apparent.
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Jules
replied on May 10th, 2007
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Oh yeah I was simply answering her question about how we knew both girls went to the same 'school' or whatever Wink

Like .Kia said though, genuine people have nothing to worry about and fakes usually end up catching themselves in their own webs in the end so don't worry about it!
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