I agree. YOu need to see a different doctor. I would not let any doctor that told me I
would lose an ovary due to an operation anywhere near me. I had surgery when I was 14 to remove a cyst because it was causing me pain. I was told going in that I
may lose my ovary, because she wasn't positive what everything was going to look like going in, but I didn't lose my ovary or either tube. It is way to harsh to make that assumption.
As for effecting your fertility, some cysts can inturupt your cycle and cause you not to ovulate. But
many women continue to have a cycle while they have cysts and it does not effect their pregnancy. However, If you have activly been ttc (temping, using opk's) for over 2 years, it is time to see a fertility specialist.
The additional symptoms that you describe do sound like hormonal issues. They could be from the cysts themselves or they could be causing the cysts. Only a doctor will be able to tell you that for sure.
Good luck and keep us posted!