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Cambion

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I'm Spent Before He Is
Posted: 05-06-07 07:21am

Gosh, I always thought it was the guy who got worn out first. It's the other way around with me and my BF. I want to be able to last longer than a couple minutes when we roll in the hay. Hopefully this isn't TMI (sorry, I'll try not to make it really graphic), but I'm capable of having three orgasms (the lovely g-spot ones Smile) and then sex just doesn't feel as good after that third one. I notice a difference, and so does BF - I can easily tell I've 'loosened' up to the point where I almost can't feel him.

This is going to sound weird coming from a woman, but does anyone have any advice on maybe lasting longer?
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-06-07 13:40pm

Have you tried to delay your orgasm? Maybe telling him to stop for a minute, or slow down, or whatever you need to do to hold off a little longer? Laughing

I don't know. My turn for TMI. Once, I was seriously about to orgasm about ten seconds into it, so I held off, but then I could not get it back. Confused So then I never had it at all that time.

Or are there any positions that just don't it for you? Maybe you could go in those positions for a while, then switch to one that does it for you after a bit?
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princessnae

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Joined: 17 Apr 2007
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I Get the Same Way
Posted: 05-07-07 01:04am

I agree to try and hold off the orgasims even though I know how great they are. Also change positions, switch to oral, or simply help him finish as fast as he can. I get into my fav postions that I know that will make him cum fast when im spent.

Another thing you can do is have sex when you have more energy instead of when your laying down to go to sleep that helps..
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