my husband and i are not to getter right
now i filed for divorce. but we splite up
for 2 months and then he found a
girlfriend and so we didnt talk for about
6 months and now she left him to go back
to her husband. he told me that he would
like to get back with me but i said let me
think about it. but the next day i found
out that he started drinkin and doing
drugs. he tells me he wants to be with me
then the next day he dont then he tells me
he wants to make it work then he dont. I
tell him we need to talk and he tells me
tomorrow but tomorrow never comes. he
tells me he loves me and but dont want to
be back with my baby and i. he told his
cousin that he wants to finesh his
partying first.
I dont know what to do. should i stay or
leave him.
Well, given your description it seems that
you don’t need such an unstable person
in your life. If you suspect your husband
is addicted to drugs and/or alcohol you
can seek support from a group like Al-Anon
for yourself. You'll need to set
boundaries and be very clear about what
you want in life.
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