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Q: Oral Sex
asked by: wonderfulthoughts on February 21st, 2004
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Ok, i've never given a blow job and my boyfriend really wants one. What should I do techinques? Ideas? What do men like in a blow job. Explain to me how to do it! I want to do it right.
Thank you
teresa
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smith8500
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Hey
Hmmmm, wish I could help you. I've never done it either so i'm not sure what to tell you. Are you new here? Care to share more about yourself?
I'm chanda. 17. Sr in high school. No kids.
Love,
chanda
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kitty_55
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Um...? First off do you want to do oral sex to your bf? The way I do it is make him lay down on the bed and sorta sit where his knees are and open your mouth and suck like your sucking a popscile..Dont use teeth!!! Suck sorta soft than harder and ask him what he likes.. And I suggest dont let him cum in your mouth!!! It is really gross lol make him tell you when he is going to so you can take it out and give him a hand job..If you wanna know anything more just ask!!

Alison xoxo
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sdwood2
replied on February 21st, 2004
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How old are you may I ask I have seen you asking this on other forms too just wornding

i there are also web sights that you could prob go to.
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ERICA1121
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Just like kitty said , thats the way. Lol when I first suspected I was pregnant, I didn't have a missed period but for some reason the thought of my man cumming in my mouth made me sick. Tmi sorry. But now I never let him do it. I think it's the hormones. Being that it wil be your first time in all. Do not! Let him finish in your mouth. You have to make sure your comfortable with the actuall doing of it. And dont do it just for him. Do it cuz u want to also. ~ erica.
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wonderfulthoughts
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Hi
Thank you for the advice. I want to do it for both of us. He orally pleases me so I would like to help him out. He also really wants me to I am just a little scared to do it. By the way I am 16.
Thank you
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caesarsmama
replied on February 21st, 2004
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...and For Added Pleasure For Him..
Hi,

renee again. The "old" one.

Try having a halls cough drop in your mouth -- yes during or freshly gargle with listerine.

They love it!!

Lotsa luck!

Renee
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KissyBai912
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Lol.....This is weird for me.....From my experience, I would say use ur toungue as much as possible (while your sucking) and no teeth.....And throat it as deep as possible.....They love that.....O and most guys like it when u use ur other hand to massage their balls or kind of jack them off too....Hard to explain......Lol. And most guys like it faster....I'm not really sure why. As for cumming in my mouth, personally, it doesn't bother me. But I can see that it would some people. But a lot of guys get off on that too. But if you let him, and don;t intend to swallow, make sure you have something to spit it in! Lol. I think it's easier to swallow but yall really didnt wanna know that did you? Ok i'm going to shut up now. Lol. Hope this helps.
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shinydream
replied on June 17th, 2009
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Hey..i cant help u much with this.But would love to know ur experience when u've done it.do write.
All the best.
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jlove12
replied on June 18th, 2009
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Hi,
I love giving blowjobs and would pretty much say im good at them (not to blow my own trumpet)

I have my own techniques and stuff but over the last few sexual partners ive learned that each guy is totaly different. So once you get started try and get him to let you know what he likes. its alot easier that way!

However heres a few pointers to get you started!

Alot of guys dont know it but oral sex can be alot more than just going straight to the penis. a guy can spend all his time kissing a girl on the neck and down her body and then you know .. but we girls never seem to do that. Guys r just as sensitive and have alot of sensitive zones apart from their penis.

I may aswell js tell you what i do.
For my boyfriend i'll lie him down and start of kissing his neck, hes loves me being naked on top of him so he can feel my body with his hands! he absolutley loves it when i give his ear a little nibble and also a little playfull nibble on his neck.
I then work my way down his torso using my hands, tongue, giving little kisses here there and everywhere! he loves this because its a place most guysd have never been kissed before really. you can also have a little play with his nipples!
by this point he is solid and a good point about starting up top is he can feel your body sliding down over his penis. which again stimulating him! by the time my face is down there i tease him, brushing my lips over his penis so he can feel my breath. I then go on to kiss his thighs sometimes digging my nails in at certain points. By this point he is dien for me to js take him in my mouth but patience is a virtue!!

After all the teasing he can imagine, i go to work at his penis. The head of the penis has alot of sensitive wee nerve things and just use your tongue to stimulate, give it little licks and what not. i then holding the penis in my hand put my full mouth aroud the tip, and slowly work my way up and down, I wdont suggest wanking at the same time at this point because he just might explode! js hold it to guide it in your mouth so no teeth!!
Another little pointer i usualy do is work on his balls. Licking, sucking, touching , any thing goes js be very light and gentle!
Deep throating is another major thing for guys, i hold the base of the penis and put my mouth down as much as i can.
If you want him to have a long experience you can also stop for a while, use some lube or spit on your hand and give him a wank, all in all you can kiss him at the same time. This calms him down a little so he can keep going.

Sometimes my guy says js go for it! at this point i put wanking and using my mouth together! and suck hard!

When he finally comes id say to let him cum in your mouth! if you dont want to swollow it js quickly nip to the bathroom and spit Smile im sure he wont mind!

Once you get down there js be urself, explore and do what you think hed love, Communicate! As long as that penis is in your mouth at somepoint hes gonna love you! the thought of relaxing back doing f*** all while his gorgeous girlfriend is down on him is all he needs!

Relax and enjoy Smile

Oh and dont forget to have him pleasure you in return Smile awesome xxx
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