Today, I had sex for the first time. However, it didn't really work. Nothing can penetrate more than 2 inches without causing me extreme pain. I was very lubricated and relaxed, and on my own I have tried. When I put my fingers in and press in, I feel a wall that's blocking penetration. It causes not only pain, but I simultaneously need to go to the bathroom (both ways). I've tried dildos/lubricants, but I can't seem to get past that "wall". Can any one please help? Thank you so much.