Yea, so I am 21 years old, and I've never had a girlfriend before. I have never even kissed, been out on an actual date, much less sex. The funniest part of that is that I am an athlete in college. I did track for two years here, and now I play football here at my college. I go to a small engineering college in upstate NY called RPI, and it's 75% male. Another funny thing here, is that most people seem to think that I'm some kind of jock who gets girls, on first impression, but they have no idea.

I know it cannot be my looks. Many people say that I'm good looking, including a girl here at school, but she seems to have many guys around her. Some of my friends tell me that it's because of my awkwardness in social situations, plus shyness...but I don't even find too many girls willing to just start talking to me.

So given all that, I resorted to meeting girls online. And lately, like a couple weeks ago, I met this one girl online. She, like many others, thought I was a jock who got girls when she looked at my pics, and she was surprised to find out otherwise. So we got past that one, and we started talking on a regular basis. She even gave me her phone #...and we call each other like everyday. We even acknowledged that there's an attraction between us. I told her that I find her hot, and that I love her personality. She said that she finds me really cute and hot, and she loves my weird antics, and finds my voice sexy. On top of all that, we were talking about what we'd do if we met in real life instead of online. She said that she'd "try to make eye contact, and give me a mona lisa smile to indicate for me to come over and talk to her" because she finds me hot.

So as you can tell, there's this attraction going on between us. She also told me that I'm the only guy that she talks to, and likes (because I'm nice and I never get dirty about anything). We also agreed to meet up and hang out. But then I asked her "what would you consider it when we hang out?". And she replies "I don't know...friendly?? like friends??"...to which I replied "well I'd see it more as casual dating"...and she at least agreed to that...but that kinda tore it...I mean there's obviously this attraction between us...so why does she wanna be just friends w/ me?? Why not something more??

I might add that she told me that she does not wanna get involved with anybody ever again. She even said that she never wants to get married. The last time she was in a relationship, it ended really bad, and kinda broke her heart.

Last point...I know it's not my looks...all of her friends are bombshell hot, and according to her, she showed them my pics, and every single one of them finds me really cute and hot, and they all think that I'm a jock who's faking all the kindness and sensitivity...

So to sum it all up...I've never dated, and now I met this girl online. We obviously have a thing for each other, but she wants to be just friends...somebody please put some light on the situation...thanks