So, my last year and a half have been interesting enough. I came out to my girlfriend last summer and told her I'd been having issues with myself, and finally declared myself bi. She was worried for a while that she'd lose my for a guy (and she almost did, I'll admit. Not to a specific guy, but b/c I was curious).
I almost lost her twice b/c I thought I wanted to be with a guy, and I came out to my parents, telling them I was bi (I don't think they believe me still. But if they knew what me and my gf do in bed, they probably would).
My gf has been supportive of me being bi (we use a more comfortable term for her sake- straight with bisexual tendencies, since I've never had sex with a guy).
I guess the thing that bothers me though is myself. See, as much as I enjoy the "normal" guy and girl sex, I still would like to have some more options that I enjoy. I guess what I'm saying is that sometimes, I do stuff by myself that suits my bisexual tendencies, and I feel bad for not telling my gf.
It also bothers me that sometimes, I like to wear women's clothing, and I don't tell my gf about that either. I told her about that, and she was comfortable with it, as long as it was only once in a while. I haven't done it for nearly five months now, but I'd like to do it a little more often. Like I said, I do it secretly when I'm at my house, but I guess I feel bad not telling her, because she'll start wondering I guess.
I really do love her, and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I know it makes her a little uncomfortable with the women's clothing thing, but she's fine with my sexuality. So, how do I tell her that I do things in private without making her upset or worried?
Anyone that can help, or has gone through a similar situation from either side, please help me if you can.