Hi, everyone, this story may sound crazy
but it's very true and it upsets me so
much. I dated a girl for not so long,
probably about a month, we've had
unprotected sex. So we broke up, and she
tells me later that she pregnant.
Now i'm not freaked out about it because
I'm telling her okay lets talk about it
and plan this out. But she doesn't pick up
the phone, we just communicate via text,
and it's ridiculous. I would always think
that when a girl gets pregnant she calls
the guy immedieatly and says that she's
pregnant. But this girl is being so
stubborn, and I just want 5 mintues on the
phone with her. But she won't give it to
me.
So a couple of weeks later I text her
telling her good luck with a final
exam(were in college). She responds by
saying thanks and that I shouldn't worry
about the kid because shes marrying some
guy who can't have kids and will raise the
baby. I don't know wether she's lieing or
not. We broke up because I thought and
told her she was immature and we weren't
connecting on a deeper level. I don't know
if this is one big joke or what, does
anyone have any opinions or some type of
law that could force us to talk?
I would really appreciate it,
thanks.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-02-07 19:47pm
Nope. Not until after the baby is born do
you have any rights. She does not have to
talk to you to discuss anything. Besides,
it sounds to me like she is yanking your
chain. She found a guy in less than a
month to marry her and keep her child as
his own? Not very likely ~ and even if it
were true, it sounds like a lot of drama.
Just wait it out. Eventually, if there is
a child, you will know. Don't you have
friends in common? Can't you go to her
dorm/apartment and just say, "Show me the
test already!" Offer to take her to the
clinic ~ or go to her doctor's appointment
with her.
You would be amazed how many
'miscarriages' there are that were never
real pregnancies to begin with.
