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Q: Huge Dillema, Don't Know Whats Happening
asked by: worried_and_scared on May 2nd, 2007
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Hi, everyone, this story may sound crazy but it's very true and it upsets me so much. I dated a girl for not so long, probably about a month, we've had unprotected sex. So we broke up, and she tells me later that she pregnant.

Now i'm not freaked out about it because I'm telling her okay lets talk about it and plan this out. But she doesn't pick up the phone, we just communicate via text, and it's ridiculous. I would always think that when a girl gets pregnant she calls the guy immedieatly and says that she's pregnant. But this girl is being so stubborn, and I just want 5 mintues on the phone with her. But she won't give it to me.

So a couple of weeks later I text her telling her good luck with a final exam(were in college). She responds by saying thanks and that I shouldn't worry about the kid because shes marrying some guy who can't have kids and will raise the baby. I don't know wether she's lieing or not. We broke up because I thought and told her she was immature and we weren't connecting on a deeper level. I don't know if this is one big joke or what, does anyone have any opinions or some type of law that could force us to talk?
I would really appreciate it,
thanks.
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Mabel
replied on May 2nd, 2007
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Nope. Not until after the baby is born do you have any rights. She does not have to talk to you to discuss anything. Besides, it sounds to me like she is yanking your chain. She found a guy in less than a month to marry her and keep her child as his own? Not very likely ~ and even if it were true, it sounds like a lot of drama.

Just wait it out. Eventually, if there is a child, you will know. Don't you have friends in common? Can't you go to her dorm/apartment and just say, "Show me the test already!" Offer to take her to the clinic ~ or go to her doctor's appointment with her.

You would be amazed how many 'miscarriages' there are that were never real pregnancies to begin with.
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