I Feel That No One Will Help! Posted: 05-02-07 08:12am
My Partner and I started trying for a baby
quite young (20) and after a year I was
worried that we had not concieved. Just as
I was about to go to my Gp I fell pregnant
and miscarried at 5 weeks. this was two
years ago and still i have not had another
pregnancy since.
I have been to my Gp who referred me to a
gynacologist who ran 2 tests in one year
and told me i was healthy!
I am constantly told that as i became
pregnant once then there is nothing wrong
but i feel no one is listening! I fell
pregnant after a year of trying and have
been trying for 2 years since! im also
told its ok because " I have time on my
side" and always fobbed off or put on the
bottom of waiting lists!
It been nearly three years now and i haven
only just been referred to another
Gynacologist! as the last one has ruined
the last few years for me! Ive had a
laproscopy, chromosome analysis, scans
blood tests, and every thing always sais
im fine!
My periods are 26 days to the day, i can
even calculate to the hour approx that my
period will come! I have period after
period and never a positive pregnancy
test!
My partner already has a son from a
previous relationship I know that it could
be him but i think it is more about a
problem with me!
i beginning to wish I did have a problem
just so that I can know what the problem
is and can get some help!
does anyone have the same problem?
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negar
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Phillipa Posted: 05-05-07 14:51pm
I am sorry for I know how hard ttc ca be,
specially for 3 yrs and a m/c.
you do have age on your side and your
tests came out normal so that is all good
news. However the fact that no one is
helping you sucks. I have been ttc for 3
yrs as well, and had 2 m/c, and had a
really bad experience with 2 gyno's that
didn't take things serious and gave it no
urgency. I am however 35 and that already
can be a problem. I am now seeing an
infertility specialist, and I think you
should take the same route. Even though
your husband already has a son, you should
have his sperm examined, because things
can change.
Good luck and keep me posted
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-05-07 14:57pm
Both parties need to be tested in this
case. It could very well be your husband.
Try going to a fertility specialist
instead of just a gynecologist. There is a
difference. You need to know, regardless
of your age.
Until then, though, get a book on
temperature charting and chart your
cycles. you said they are 26 days
consistently - so that is great! It will
be easier to pinpoint your fertile times.
Get a thermometer and go for it.
