Mia,
there's different types of support & one (which I guess you're unaware of) is being tough, calling things as you see them, saying what you feel needs to be said as opposed to what is nice & gooey & not always what is needed.
Sometimes support & advice is just that support, empathy, advice but sometimes it's harsh or harsher, trying to get people to take off their blinders, open their eyes & minds & think!!
Are they doing all they need to do, are they doing all they can do, are they doing what they should be doing &/or are they avoiding reality & making excuses for inaction. (i personally do alot of the latter, so I know what it's about, but i've also done the opposite).
We all should take responsibility for our own lives & not simply leave it to others to tell us or prescibe, we should be checking for ourselves, seeing whether what is prescibed, what is diagnosed is accurate. Today we have the internet which makes searching out alternative answers & full details so easy & yes, anyone who simply takes whatany dr says as gospell & what any dr prescibes as the best (even if the drug is fantastic it may not be right for you, & it sure won't be right if your diagnois is wrong!!)without checking & questioning for yourself, yes anyone who fails themselves in this is a brainless fool.
You may not see that as supportive or helpful, but from personal experience I know of people who would be dead, another who would have had a kidney transplant, another in a wheelchair, another deaf & many (worldwide!!) who would be seriously ill & possibly dead due to both misdiagnosis & wrongly prescibed medication (both wrong for the diagnosis & wrong for the individual).
But people are free to continue seeing drs as gods & not questioning, researching for & about themselves, we have freedom of speech, but i'm free to say they're idiots for not taking responsibility for their own health.
That's the last i'll say on this issue; if you don't get it now, you never will.