Oh Alex..., I feel for you so much. I understand that exhaustion and frustration mentally and physically. It makes me so mad to read about TMJ sufferers being shuffles from doctors to doctors with no help. If I swore, I might put a bad word here, but I don't.
What have you been doing to help your TMJ symptoms? I mean, have you been wearing a bite splint? Did you read my posting to Jodester with all the self-help suggestions I could come up with?
Please, please, don't even consider surgery. It won't stop with one surgery. It just keeps going on and on. The statistics do not support TMJ surgery successes.
If meds have been pushed at you - are you taking an anti-depressant? Believe it or not they can be a miracle pill for TMJ pain. Stress, posture - all of this, plus more, are so important to evaluate. Have you been to a physical or massage therapist? A good one is worth his/her weight in gold.
Please read the postings to Jodester and come back with some questions. We want to help you. Contact Dyan to search for a specialist in your area or start calling around and asking questions of dentists, like, "Do you treat TMJ patients?" "How?" Etc. Get mad and fight for your health.
Please, take care and God bless you,
Carol