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Q: 14 Yr Old Pregnant
asked by: Lee159 on February 20th, 2004
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I'm not very religious or anything..But i've prayed a couple times this week for this 14 yr old girl @ my school..I overheard her the other day when I was @ lunch with a friend..She came in with a (used) pregnancy test..All freaking out and stuff to her friends she was with..About how her parents are going to like kill her for being pregnant and stuff..I'm not sure of the whole story,cause i'm not friends with her or anything..But she'z only 14,and in grade 9....Apparently,noone knows her and this guy had sex,and she doesn't want anyone to know either..She was apparetnly planning on like yelling @ him,saying it was all his fault she got "knocked up" and that she was going to purposely get someone to kick her a$$ so she could lose the baby,since she doesn't wanna get an abortion..I really feel for her..I mean,she obviously is not ready to become a mother,and I was just hoping some of you oculd maybe pray for her..
Luv alwayz
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smith8500
replied on February 20th, 2004
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Wow
That is truly sad! I can't belive that. I don't think she needs to be a mother...... She's not mother material yet..... Still young.
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mommabear16
replied on February 20th, 2004
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Wow...Thats really sad.

I know this girl who is 16...And I dont like her..Cause she's mean to me..But....She has been pregnant like 5 times....And either got abortions or miscarried cause she does drugs
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Scarf
replied on February 20th, 2004
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Wow, that is sad.

Theres was this girl at my school (when I was in gr.9..She was too) she got pregnant, left and had a baby. I found out today that before this baby she got pregnant 6 times and each one she got an abortion. It made me mad to find this out..Ugh! If you get too many abortions doesnt it do something to you?
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honeycoco
replied on February 20th, 2004
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Scraf I think it does but im not sure. I heard some people say that after awhile you can have kids but I dont know if thats true are not.


Chrystal
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sparklypixie12
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Scarf-that girl is soooo sick.I hope she never has the privelege of being a mom when she wants to be.
Lee-i will keep this girl in my thoughts,i feel sad for her Sad
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Scarf
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Sparkly-i agree..She is stupid! My friend told me that this girl doesnt believe in birthcontrol or adoption..Thats why she had 6 abortions...Its sick..And sad. Why cant she not believe in abortion? Its horrible! Ugh..

Honey-i thought so too. I hope that this child will be her last (and I hope that shes atleast a decent mother). She should stop having sex!
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sparklypixie12
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Shes rather kill 6 of her babies then take the pill? Where's the logic in that? I seriosuly cant believe that shes been allowed that many without being forced on the pill!
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Scarf
replied on February 21st, 2004
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I know! But theres nothing noone can do. I think its stupid that her parents havent done anything about it. Ugh! It makes me mad. There are so many people out there who cant have kids..She can but shed rather kill them all. Evil or Very Mad
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sparklypixie12
replied on February 21st, 2004
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How could someone kill 6 of their own babies? Its beyond belief how sick it is! If she was my child,i'd have kicked her ass a long time ago! I feel sad when girls like that kill their own babies and some of our lovely girls cant have lost them Crying or Very sad
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hearenbaby8504
replied on February 21st, 2004
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Wow That Is Sad!!!
I will keep her in my prayers. That is not the way to go about it, I wish she could do something else. I mean to have someone beat her up is so sad. I am gonna keep her in my prayers till I hear something. I know one girl who had got pregnant and purposly fell down the steps. I dont actually know if she was telling a lie or not. As for my friend who had finally had a baby she had 6 miscarriages, had a baby boy who lived for a week and finally had a beautiful baby girl named brianna paige. I heard that she was on drugs really heavy and that is wht she kept having the miscarriages.
Lots of love,
heather
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sdwood2
replied on February 21st, 2004
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That is so so sad this girl needs help so does not deserve to have kids
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KissyBai912
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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I feel so sorry for this girl....I mean i'm 14 too and when I found out I was pregnant I was scared too....But I never would have even thought of doing anything to purposely lose the baby.....That's no better than having an abrtion in my opinion. And I think dewitt might have beat my ass too....His son is his pride and joy and he's not even here yet! I mean, this guy yells at me if I take even a sip of something caffeinated or I gain less than a pound a week! Lol. I know he just wants josh to be healthy but sometimes I think he's more psyco than I am! Lol. But that really makes me sad that she feels the need to do that. And I can tell she is definately not mother material. First, she needs to face the fact that she did have sex with this guy. And two, if she didn't want anyone to know, then y the hell did she run into the lunchroom with a pregnancy test and tell her friends about it loud enough for you to hear? It almost sounds like she's doing it for attention. As for the girl with 6 abortions, I think she should be put in jail on 6 counts of homicide. I understand that people get scared and have abortions, but 6? Hole freaking cow they should give her a hysterectomy to say the least! There is a girl at my school, she is constantly saying that she is pregnant, but always at about 12 weeks, she says she had a miscarriage. She has done this like 6 times in the last 2 years. Frankly I think everyone is sick of it and no one even listens to her. People used to piss me off really bad because they would find out I was pregnant, then call me a liar because I wasn't showing. It used to really upset me. But then I thought, who the hell are they to call me a liar? I'm not trying to impress them. Some girl was trying to pick a fight with me one time and she made this lame brain remark of calling me supposedly pregnant girl. Ugh. What a loser. And then when I really started showing she was always asking me questions and wanting to touch my stomach and stuff.....People disgust me.
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JaidynsMama
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Please don’t take any offense ladies, but this is why sex is intended for adults, not 14, 15 and 16 year old girls. It is more dangerous and harmful then most think. Std’s, pregnancy, broken hearts, all of those are so mentally tiring and detrimental to your self-esteem. This little girl should be worrying about sports, the mall, her studies, not worrying about where to get her next abortion!
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Amazin_Mommy
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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I Am a 16 Yr Old Mommy
Well I am 16 years old with a 4 year old daughter and is currently pregnant with my second. I know giving birth at 12. I felt so slutty and nasty. But I was young, dumb, and stupid. Now I realize I messed up my whole life and now I am playing for it. My parents shipped me away and wanted nothing to do with me. Luckily, my baby's father, his parents, and my grandparents supported me. My parents didn't enknownledeged I was their daughter until my baby girl was 21/2 months old. They didn't even show up for the birth. I moved back home when my baby was 3 months old and nothing changed, I was still none. I dropped out of school and did homeschooling for 3 months. I was knowned as the school's promiscuous person because I had a baby at home. I was kicked out of 4 different schools. My parents finally came around and started claiming me. They never did anything to help. My uncle gave me a job to support me baby when I was only 14 years old and I have been working to support us both ever since. Then after working so hard, my parents bought me car and watched my baby when needed.
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Untimely Blessings
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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I am 19, mother to a little girl christina who will be 6 in july, and I have worked my ass off as a single mommy and done a great job. Jaidynsmama I agree and disagree with some of your points!

Kelly
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Untimely Blessings
replied on February 22nd, 2004
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Re: I Am a 16 Yr Old Mommy
amazin_mommy wrote:
well I am 16 years old with a 4 year old daughter and is currently pregnant with my second. I know giving birth at 12. I felt so slutty and nasty. But I was young, dumb, and stupid. Now I realize I up my whole life and now I am playing for it. My parents shipped me away and wanted nothing to do with me. Luckily, my baby's father, his parents, and my grandparents supported me. My parents didn't enknownledeged I was their daughter until my baby girl was 21/2 months old. They didn't even show up for the birth. I moved back home when my baby was 3 months old and nothing changed, I was still none. I dropped out of school and did homeschooling for 3 months. I was knowned as the school's promiscuous person because I had a baby at home. I was kicked out of 4 different schools. My parents finally came around and started claiming me. They never did anything to help. My uncle gave me a job to support me baby when I was only 14 years old and I have been working to support us both ever since. Then after working so hard, my parents bought me car and watched my baby when needed.


do you have yahoo?
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insurancegirl
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on February 23rd, 2004
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Jenn you always say what I was planning on saying, but now I have more to say!! I too was 14 when I had my child. But my situation was a lot different than hers. I think that you should just pull her aside and explain to her what all you have been through.. And explain how you had or are having a child and how hard it is or is going to get. I am praying that everything works out for that girl. I too dont think that she is ready to be a mom. But I think that she was also freaked out and was scared of her friends judging her so she acted that way. Once again showing that she isnt ready to be a mom. I hope this helps

*from a young mommy!!*
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