I just found out four days ago that I for sure have mono! Although I have had the symptoms for a week and a half now. I have been reading that this means that I have had the mono virus for the last 4 to 6 weeks.

I have been with this one girl for the past 7 weeks or so. There is a possibility that she is a carrier of mono too (and gave me the virus) but that is not what this question is about either.


So I have seen her and at least kissed/made out with her at least every other day. This means that we have made out (exchanged saliva) quite a few times. I have been thinking. Since I didn't know I had mono for the last 6 weeks and have been kissing her, does this mean that if she can get it has already been decided that she will DEFINITELY get it? The way I am seeing it is that kissing her more isn't going to change anything! If she is going to get mono, she has already got it from kissing me when I was in my contagious stage.

THE QUESTION:

Can we continue to kiss, make-out, fool around after I am feeling better? Or when can we start doing that again? I don't plan on kissing anyone else right now for multiple reasons, but with this girl I have already been kissing her when I caught the virus so it doesn't seem like it would change anything.

THANKS FOR ALL YOUR HELP,

PW

PS. The symptoms are all but gone now. I really want to be intimate with her again, but don't wan't to get her sick. Swear I won't though.