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Q: Who Needs Enemies....

asked by: Becky on April 30th, 2007

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with a friend like this....

my 'supposed' best friend is always lecturing me and telling me what to do. she still lives at home with her mum and is 'doing things the right way' by waiting til she's older to have kids and get married.

well today i was feeling down that i can't do the job that i always wanted to do (working freelance in media) cause of the kids so i chatted to her on msn.

well she went on to tell me that she knew i shouldn't of married neil so young as i put too much pressure on him and i should of waited longer before having kids. i said i know that but i can't turn the clock back then she said 'well you should of learned to use contraception!'

what a cow! she is supposed to be my best friend and she always makes me feel like caca. whenever i'm broke she comes round and buys me loads of things then i feel like she has a tie over me (financial leverage)

it is awful. i cut off msn and said 'you really hurt my feelings'

i feel really down now Crying or Very sad

Replies(8)

terpamber

replied on April 30th, 2007

Experienced User

That sucks hon sorry, sounds like she is stuck in High School. Sad

Becky

replied on April 30th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

thanks. whenever i say anything she always has a negative comment to say. i'm freaking sick of it Evil or Very Mad

Eyes Wide Shut

replied on April 30th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

I'm sorry .becky!!! People like that make me sick. They should know that you already have a mother to preach to you, that you don't need her to do it too!!

That makes me sooo mad...like can't I just vent to you?!?!?!?! Without you judging me?!?!?!

Sarah

mc4ever02

replied on April 30th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

That doesn't sound like a friend at all. Anyone that would say "i told you so" didn't have your best intrest at heart to begin with. Many people say that I shouldn't have gotten married so early and that I'm to young to ttc. I think I have my stuff together, and it feels right for me. If they can except and support me for that. Then I don't need to bother with them.

Jules

replied on May 1st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

She sounds jealous to me. When someone continually puts another person down like that it usually means, in my experience, that they are dissatisfied with their life in some way and it's only by making the other person feel small and foolish that they make themselves feel better. Very sad.

I'd drop her faster than a prostitute drops her knickers, mate.

Becky

replied on May 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

you are exactly right jules! thanks for enlightening me. this is exactly what she does i just couldn't pin point it. it's sad cause we have been friends for over 10 years but i just can't be friends with someone who makes me feel bad Sad

Willa Weintraub

replied on May 1st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

PurestGreen wrote:

I'd drop her faster than a prostitute drops her knickers, mate.

lmao!!!! hahahahaa,oh lord do you crack me up!

forgte her beck,she isn't a friend if she acts that way.I think jules is right, she is jealous.maybe she wants kids but hasn't been able to have any yet and is just trying to make herself feel better?

Lalee

replied on May 1st, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

I know how you feel about the job thing. I miss my job sometimes. But when I look at the overall picture, I'm glad I decided to stay at home and be a mommy. I'm lucky I had that option, because a lot of moms don't. I would also take the son and hubby that I love so much over a job any day.

She's probably just bitter and lonely. And she's no friend if she can't find the compassion to just listen to your feelings and offer a shoulder to cry on.

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