? For You Guys From a Girl Please Help

Check out the "longer sex please" topic under the sexual health women forum. It was the same question and there are several answers there.

I'm not an expert at this or anything but i've see condoms that say extended pleasure and climax control and such. I don't know how they work or anything but I assume they make him hold out longer. I do know the more you have sex, usually the guy beings to be able to control and hold his load longer purposely. Also usually it takes him longer to come the more you do it. Try the condoms if he's alreay been sexually active for a long time.

Not to be gross but.."practice makes perfect". the condoms may help too.

I gave this option in that other post that hotasfrick was talking about.. But what I do with my boyfriend sometimes, is when im giving him a hand job or something.. I go until hes about cum, then I stop... Wait a couple seconds until hes calmed down, and go again.. I repeat this maybe 3-4 times...He gets mad at me for doing this, but I don't tell him why im doing it, and plus eventually I will finish, and everything will be fine again.. Haha.. By doing this occasionally, eventually he might get better at controlling himself, and being able to hold out even longer.

Most guys cum darn quick. Usually worse when most turned on. Sometimes I blow it after <3 mins.

Get the jonnies with the numbing cream in them. Turns the experience into a somewhat odd experience for the man; humping with no feeling, but hey.

The durex ones seem to strike a compromise.

Personally I prefer oral sex... But without protection you can catch stuff just the same.

If your guy cares about you, he will work on his stamina. If he doesn't then he is selfish and he is not worth it.