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April 29th, 2007
Ok so recently I have been going to thereapy because my parents found out that I cut. I told them I only did it once and they believed me, which was good because they were upset enough about one they didn't need to know about the other like 50. But there have also been a lot of suicides in my school latly and it just struck a nerve. I was really depressed a few days after it happened. I couldnt eat for like 3 days and almost went anerexic again, it wasn't fun. So I couldn't see my therapist for another two weeks or so, so i went to the school counceler. Well she made me an official case thing and it wasnt funn at all. Now she put me in a group and I don't like it. I got really depressed and didn't eat for another few days and it wasn't funn. I'm eatting again and it's all good. The boys in my life are ok I guess they are just very confusing. But idk I'm really confused and I guess I just need some advise or something
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JJbrown8
replied April 29th, 2007
What do you think you are getting depressed over? Is it a lack in self-confidence? Share your life story--either pm me or on this post and I will be able to help you (don't share your personal info, just anything that might have to do with your condition). I have been in a similar situation and recovered and I would be glad to help.
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Poetry_Writter
replied May 9th, 2007
Now one of my best friends is mad at me for basically no reaon. I hate this I hate life. I want it to end. Idon't know how to regain control. It seems that everythim something good happens in my life I find some way to !**@! it up. Some one please help me i need advice major.
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Poetry_Writter
replied May 14th, 2007
omg i am going to cut again...my brother signed up for the army and if he dies im going to kill myself...he is my life line with out him i die i really don't know wht i should do right now....please help
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lil_blaze2004
replied May 15th, 2007
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oyu need to get help. cutting is not the answer. I understand it helps at that moment but in the long run it's not. People question my scars all the time and it's quite embarassing.

Talk to a school counselor if you don't want to talk to your parents right away. Put a rubber band around your wrist and and snap it every time you get the urge. I promise you'll thank yourself in the future.
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Poetry_Writter
replied May 15th, 2007
lil_blaze2004 wrote:
oyu need to get help. cutting is not the answer. I understand it helps at that moment but in the long run it's not. People question my scars all the time and it's quite embarassing.

Talk to a school counselor if you don't want to talk to your parents right away. Put a rubber band around your wrist and and snap it every time you get the urge. I promise you'll thank yourself in the future.


i have a therapist and i go to the school counsler and im in a girls support group at school and unfortunaly it doesnt help it all just hruts more cause then in group i absorb how the other girls are feeling and come out more depressed but i try thr rubber band thing and sometimes it works so yeah
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replied May 15th, 2007
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Poetry_Writter wrote:
lil_blaze2004 wrote:
oyu need to get help. cutting is not the answer. I understand it helps at that moment but in the long run it's not. People question my scars all the time and it's quite embarassing.

Talk to a school counselor if you don't want to talk to your parents right away. Put a rubber band around your wrist and and snap it every time you get the urge. I promise you'll thank yourself in the future.


i have a therapist and i go to the school counsler and im in a girls support group at school and unfortunaly it doesnt help it all just hruts more cause then in group i absorb how the other girls are feeling and come out more depressed but i try thr rubber band thing and sometimes it works so yeah


do you ever want kids?? I have a almost 2 yr old boy and he's started noticing my scars. what the heck am I gonna tell him when he asks me "Mama, what's that?" Put that in your head next time you want to cut.

It can take a long time to stop cutting...It took me a few yrs but I have not cut in over 2 yrs now and the urge hasn't been around at all in the last yr or so. It will get better.
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Poetry_Writter
replied May 15th, 2007
yeah i do want kids and yeah it will be wierd telling ur kid wht that is from and im sry that u have to do that but most of mine are gone and im only a teenager so yeah i think i have time for them to go away plus im starting to use the stuff that makes scars dissapear...im really happy that u have stopped and the urge has stopped to i know how difficult it is to deal
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