You are a very strange boy.

1. MOST women cannot do this, so you're unlikely to ever encounter this.

2. IF it happens, it is a completely normal reaction and it feels VERY good to the woman. Telling her not to squirt is like telling YOU not to ejaculate!

3. I don't like having ejaculate on my FACE, but I do like it on my stomach. It's warm feeling, and I like that. I can see why a girl would like it on her face, too. Secondly, what about couples that do not need to use condoms? Ejaculate in the mouth can also be enjoyable for some women. I happen to be a swallower, as I find it very rude to spit.

4. Do you even know what a douche bag is? How on earth would that help her with not squirting?

5. The fact that you never do oral sex ON a woman but it sounds like you GET some means your wife needs to find a new husband!! Demanding she give it to you but refusing to give it to her is completely unfair!

Ditto, Eiri! Nothing more to add.

Poor hygiene practice? I can see how anal might be bad as far as hygiene, but come on. Sex is intimate and bodily fluids get mixed and in that way you might consider it dirty. But that's the way sex is supposed to be... the only reason I'd call sex unsanitary is if you have unprotected sex with someone with an STD. You're SUPPOSED to get to some level of dirtiness during anything sexual.

And it's really not nice to say any of this is dirty because some people do like to have oral sex or receive it, or they like to be cummed on, and there's nothing wrong with it. You don't have any right to call them gross. I'll have you know every time I do a blowjob for my boyfriend, I swallow it then give him a kiss and he doesn't mind at all. There's nothing gross about that!

Why are you posting this here anyway? The original poster wanted to know better how to make a woman squirt, and by posting that you think it's gross isn't helping anybody.

What??!(&*^$%. Sounds like you might be gay.

...Who might be gay...?

by me telling her my opinion that squirting is gross,
i hope she doesn't learn how to do it,

i guess im just going to stay away from intercourse entirely
if me and my girlfriend (if i ever get one) want a child,
we will just use the needle insertion style for impregnation.

as for a douche bag... i just figured, a female condom
that can hold bodily flow from both directions.

I think you should stay away from intercourse entirely until you learn more about it too.

You shoudl also learn what a douche bag is. Otherwise stay away from those too becuase they are not female condoms and you would confuse the hell out of any girl when you ask her to wear one while having sex.

I'm not judging you on your opinions, I can see how someone could find it "gross". I find the aftermath clean up for sex kind of icky and I don't even squirt. However, you sound pretty young, and chances are your views will change once you actually have a girlfriend you care for. Maybe you'll understand that the "gross" part is well worth it.

Sounds like you might be 12.

Do you have anything constructive to give to this discussion? Why do you think someone on this topic is gay?

Why would you say that though? For most women, squirting is incredibly pleasurable. By telling your lady not to squirt, you are denying her one of the ultimate orgasms a woman is capable of experiencing.


You're just young, clearly. You shouldn't be having sex anyway, not until you are an adult and TRULY in love. Then, none of this will seem gross to you.


As others have told you, that's absolutely wrong. A Douche Bag is a bag used to catch the liquid that comes out after a woman douches her vagina. A douche is a special cleanser that gets squirted into the vagina to clean it. A douche is completely useless and in fact harmful. A woman's vagina naturally cleans itself and does not need external cleansers.

thats cool, maybe ill just stick by myself all my life, i just think all this pornography out there promoted this squirting action, i just hope its found as a gross trait to all that dont want to see it.

Exodia69 just out of curiousity you go on about how oral sex is 'gross' yet you have the letters 69 after your name. Do they symbolise something or are you just very young and have never experienced anything. Its ok to find everything like that gross but I'm sure when you get a bit older you'l look back on your views on sex and think that they are funny. Just as we who have read your comments think its funny that you think its all so gross. My guess is you have not experienced sex and are only going by what you see in porn. Porn is often over done and does not always display what sex is really like. Often sex is not messy at all and I am sure once you get a bit older you will come to realise this.

ok first let me start by explaining my problem. i have a gf and we have a more then regular sex life. and with hte way it is now i give her oral sex witch to my knowlege is clitoral stimulation. then we have intercorse because she cant have a cum when we are havingsex. i do not believe it is because i am to small (i am 8 inches long and 2 and half to 3 inches wide). so i dont belive that it is because i am not big enough.

so my qustion is, is it me thats not makeing her cum or is it her. i also was woundering where is the g spot i have heard it is 2 inches in and up but i do not know if that is true. another thing i was woundering is when fingering a women how do you know that you have found the g spot i mean how dose it feel to the touch

It is her. She may not have a g-spot that causes orgasms, which isn't her fault or yours. You two have a very normal sex life where the male gives an orgasm to the girl before vaginal sex begins.

My g-spot personally feels light a tightly textured rough-spot inside of my vagina, compared to the rest which is smooth. "A rough, textured spot" is the description I most often hear.

thank you very much i was just killing me not knowing.

i will try and see if i can find the g spot but if i dont it dose not matter i love my sex life..


thank you

It honestly doesn't matter because she's getting an orgasm from her clitoris, and vaginal sex is an enjoyable experience in and of itself.

just out of curiosity, and because it hasn't really been addressed yet in this post (surprisingly)

of you women who have replied to this thread that do ejaculate, (can we call it ejaculate?).. squirt.....does it make you feel good, ie is there pleasure in it, as a sensation in itself?
as a guy i know that the most amazing sensation during orgasm is when I actually ejaculate. i know that guys and girls are very different in the orgasmic sense, but I am wondering if this is just a by product of orgasm for some girls, or an actual ejaculatory sensation!
if the latter is the case then i think it'd be something i would really want to be able to make a woman do (putting aside the arguments about IF all women can, or not)

and TBH as a virile 28 year old guy, it'd turm me on untold amounts to make a woman ejaculate...

Steve

are you kidding? needle insertion to get pregnant? wow...poor wifey of yours...i personally would like to know my child was made by love

clearly you shouldn't be having sex..how would you like it if your gf said "ew..sperm grosses me out so hold it in"....good luck with the gf thing...you gotta give alittle to get..why would she give you a bj if shes not going to get anything in return

Ok so I am one of the rare ones that can squirt. I can do it with clit only stimulation or vag orgasm. But oddly enough....not both lol. It kinda feels like you have to pee, but not exactly. I'll explain it as best I can. Ok right before the big event, in my case, it will feel like I have to pee a bit...but for those of you that have been preggers, it's like that annoying baby just moved its head and wrenched my bladder a good one...you know you dont have to pee but the urge is there. Then there is a wee bit of fullness in my vagina, and I have a bit of an urge to push. Then it happens. It is an amazing experience but rather draining lol. Also I am VERY sensitive afterward so no further stimulation for like an hour. I personally believe that some women may not be able to acheive squirting orgasms, but I do believe we all have g-spots. But just like some women enjoy anal while others just never get the hang of it, same principal goes.

you know i dont really know if i squirt i mean i dont shoot out like a freaken squirt gun. hahaha, i mean if you just rub me or go down on me for just a sec, i get realy realy realy wet, it's not a bad thing it's way better then using the KY gel. but it just ruinens the going down on me part u know. or maby you dont know. lol but umm ..but i have seen girls on porno vids squirt and it's nasty! lol dude i think your girl is find the way she is. wish i had that no leaking or what ever you call it.

I wished men didn't ejaculate when they orgasm. That would be so wonderful not to clean wet spots (particulary when you have very expensive bed sheets like the ones I have). I'm still figuring out what's the obsession about squirting. Sound to me like more to clean.