whats the p-spot?????????? ive never heard of this!!!

its there prostate. thats how guys get off from anal. i was wondering if anyone knew what the "a-spot" on the women was?

ah! someone explain all these spots!? I am missing out i had no idea.

How do you stimulate the "p-spot"? And the "a-spot"? anymore "spots" i dont know about!? lol

if you want to for your guy the "p-spot" you basically stick your finger up there butt. i know a lot of guys like it during sex while there on top or while you give them a blow job. i have no idea about the "a-spot" for us tho.

so you just stick your finger in there and thats it? or is there a motion you make? like ya know, on a girl to hit the g spot you make the "come here" motion.

i think its the opposite direction of the "come here" motion.

so "go away"? jk

haha yeah i guess you could call it that

Honestly I find all this kind've offensive. I am able to have great sex through clitoral orgasms. I don't squirt, and I really don't believe it's possible for me to do so. Or to have purely vaginal orgasms, because I just don't feel much up there.

So who has the right to tell me that I'm "not doing it right?" or too closed minded to really experience a good orgasm? Grr...

It's as if squirting makes a true woman.

Ok, so to go off on a total limb here....
Many supermodels look somewhat masculine, in fact, many have genetic conditions that cause them to be masculine, more narrow hips, broad shoulders, taller, slim, etc. So slightly masculine is the ideal for a woman- which is a bit ridiculous. And NOW, the ideal sexual act for a women is ejaculating? JUST LIKE A MAN!!! Grr....

I will be short and curvy and non-ejaculating and I don't care what other people think about that. My husband likes it.

sorry for that rant, guys

haha i agree with you georgia. i was talking about squirting with my bf and hes not even sure if he likes it. i dont and im not sure if i would want too. its kinda gross to me actually.

It would create a mess, that's for sure.

yea i sorta think its a lil gross too. It just seems to me something that guys do ya know? lol
but i just wanna know how it feels. maybe someday ill do it but im not making it a big deal.

K, I just wanna correct some things people have said about female ejaculation because I've been able to do it for years and it's the first thing I discovered I could do sexually. I was just messing around and it happened.



This is a minor detail, but in my experience I don't even have to be horny to do it. But it does help, and makes the squirting come on much faster--my record is 5 seconds of stimulation, and I swear I'm not exaggerating... if you're not horny then it's kind of forced and not nice. My point is it's possible to without being horny... maybe not for all women, I dunno.



This is true, but for me, if you DO take control of your PC and don't let yourself urinate, then it ruins it and can even be painful. My simple solution to this is to go pee before you try squirting. Then, though your body is gonna make a little bit of urine between the time you go pee and the time you actually squirt (if you do), and you don't need to hold back =) And it sucks if you squirt on a full bladder, and if you don't wanna hold back and it all comes out on a towel or your bed sheets or what have you... well that's just really not fun to clean up.

And speaking of cleanliness... well, it's not a bad idea to go pee before you have sex or masturbate period... this is what my boyfriend tells me--he said your urine is cleansing, which is why people use it for detox. By the way, if you have a urinary tract infection and you try to squirt, it really hurts and ruins the whole experience! So make sure all hands and associated body parts are cleaned each time beforehand, and make sure you use a baby wipe or something on your urethra afterward to prevent infection. Baby wipes saved my life! I had 6 or 7 UTIs in a single year because I guess I'm just susceptible. My winning solution was to use baby wipes during each trip to the toilet. Anyway, one UTI is bad enough--very painful! Prevention is good.



I wouldn't say near impossible since it happens to me all the time if I don't pee beforehand. Maybe I'm the 1% population that gets that?



=( I don't think that's very nice... I'm not gross, and neither is anyone that squirts. I know Georgia59 got a bit offended by all of this ejaculation stuff... but I don't think any of us are saying people that can squirt are better than people that can't! I don't know if some people can and some people can't or what, but whatever you look like or whatever your body says you can or can't do doesn't mean you're better or worse a woman. I'm short and curvy too, Georgia59, but I have great trouble with clitoral orgasm unlike you, lol. Hehe, see, we're not so different! =P I hope nobody meant any harm in what they said. Peace to all, whether you can squirt or not!

i didnt mean it was gross like in general. i meant i thinks its kinda gross if i did it. im not sure if i would like it or not. sorry if i offended you. i was in a rush writing so i worded that wrong.

No problem

Oh no jinkazama, I wasn't meaning people who can squirt. Hell, more power to you. That's unique and cool. I just get frustrated by (mostly men) who create sexual standards for women that most women can never live up to, you know?

Have her do a lot of Kagle and drink lots of water. I am not sure if it matters with the womans weight on this topic. However this is interesting. I can use some more sexual activity in the bedroom.... He he he. Practice makes perfect.
Good luck. make sure she goes to the bathroom before sex...
SMILE.
From a woman with practice.

Have her do a lot of Kagle and drink lots of water. I am not sure if it matters with the womans weight on this topic. However this is interesting. I can use some more sexual activity in the bedroom.... He he he. Practice makes perfect.
Good luck. make sure she goes to the bathroom before sex...
SMILE.
From a woman with practice.

Oh =/ I think a lot of women can live up to those standards but in bad ways like bulimia and anorexia and boob jobs and... well the list goes on. Speaking of boob jobs, I've noticed that the ideal pair of breasts is a pair that looks like fake boobs. I think there's something very wrong with that. Anyway, I'm just happy some men exist that aren't asking that of us. =)

guys opinion <---- it looks like a girl is pissing, its gross, its more messy than cum,

if u cant hold it from squirting out, then i don't wanna c it. i never do oral sex/ anal sex its a complete no no, why would a guy cum on a girls face instead of in the condom, its just poor hygiene practice. if i had i squirting wife... it would be time to get a
douche bag.