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Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need nothing more than a whisper to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.

Although every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, no matter how hard I try to convince them (yeah, it's a dirty, messy job, but someone's gotta do it), then that's their prerogative.

Nevertheless, if you've got yourself a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip is going to leave you soaking wet.

A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place that urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene's glands or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn't have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you.

If this does end up happening, be cool about it. Think about it; it's normal for her to feel as though she's about to urinate when she's about to ejaculate. If she does end up urinating, and you trip out on her, she'll never try this again. Enjoy the golden shower… okay, just don't freak out.

Let her go with it; eventually she'll learn the difference between the sensations. And although you can manipulate her vagina all you like, if your woman is inhibited, then chances are she won't be able to reach this pinnacle of sexual satisfaction. She may even get annoyed by the feeling, so make sure she wants it.

Okay, so she wants it. If you're about ready to start seeking the liquids, here's what you have to do:

While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral stimulation, or even women who can ejaculate through other sex play (penile penetration or even breast-sucking), the most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands.

Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first -- get her "pumped" so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, palms facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time).

About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin -- that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you're doing.

Tip: Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her navel and her mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation.

If she tells you that she feels like she's about to urinate, assure her that it's near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with encouraging words like, "Oh yeah, I can't wait for you to drench my hands."

As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a ¼ cup of liquid. Have some towels handy.

As well, after she gushes like crazy, chances are she'll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don't go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she's ready to go into phase two immediately.

Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuading and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.

For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to manipulate her nipples.

As well, you could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and finger penetration in the doggy style position.

And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies.

And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side.

There's no doubt in my mind that every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and squirt all over you.

Until next time, get that juice.

tried it, it didn't work.

i don't doubt that there are some women out there who are able to quirt, because they have shared their experiences on this forum. but most cannot. i am one of them. trust me, i am not sexually repressed, i have a g-spot vibrator and a lot of spare time. but it has never happened.

An interesting thing happened to my wife and I. We've been married 10 years and our sex life is typical of a couple married that long (with kids). We've tried going down the squirting path before without any success in fact nothing remotely like it might happen, so we gave up on the idea.
The other night we had sex longer than usual, my wife on her back with her knees back. After we finished she said to me "Gee, I really need to go to the loo all of a sudden"!
Then it kind of dawned on us, The position we were in i guess was hitting her g-spot which was filling her bladder up with fluid. If she happened to orgasm and let that fluid go, Presto! we've go female ejaculation.
I guess to make it happen you need all the variables to come together. Stimulation, Orgasam and then the willingness to let the fluid go.
We now have something new to work on!

From what I've read, the squirting feeling does feel exactly like you are about to pee, which is why many women DON'T squirt, because they stop themselves because they think they are going to pee.

They have to know that the squirting is NOT urine, so they can relax and let it happen. (which is along the lines of what you just said, magstar, but I wanted to clarify it's not urine.)

You can't do anything. It's very individual.

Ok, here's my two cents on the subject.
Anatomically speaking, every woman has the ability to squirt. We all have a g-spot, also, known as the urethral sponge. It is located on the anterior wall of the vaginal canal, which is right behind the pubic bone. For those that want to find it you can use a finger and make your finger move in the "come here" motion (you bend or crook your finger and then straighten it out like you are motioning someone to come to you -no pun intended). This will usually illicit a feeling of having to urinate. This can be really uncomfortable. If you experience that sensation you know that you are in the correct area. Now to get beyond the sensation of having to urinate is the challenge. Squatting while stimulating this area can be more comfortable or standing. Once you have started to stimulate the urethral sponge if you push or bear down during stimulation you may have a discharge of clear fluid. It may squirt or just ooze out of the vagina. Some women gush. This is the legendary female ejaculate or squirting. The process takes patience and time. It is not very comfortable at first but once you get beyond the feeling that you need to pee you can feel pleasure and the gush of fluid. This is not urine. It is not yellow and does not smell like urine. The urethral sponge has its own fluid. Scientist and sexologists don't really know what the fluid is but it does have some hormones in it. So, every woman has the ability to squirt but getting there can be difficult.

i have seen it happen on a radio show that is all about sex but they also film what they do
one time they were trying out toys one was a modified chainsaw with tongs along the chain a woman used it on just her clit and blasted a huge amount all over the camera man

Just because you saw it doesn't mean it was real. If I had a modified chainsaw torturing my clit, I'm probably pee all over the place too!

Eiri,

You are soooo funny! I'd likely pee as well if you come at me with a chain saw!

Seriously, you know we aren't talking about peeing, though, right? The fluid that comes out is not urine.

I know the rest of the thread isn't talking about peeing, but my point i was supposed to be subtle: Most of the time in porn, those women aren't squirting. They either drink a ton of water beforehand so they'll have clear urine, or they are actually injected with saline before the shot.

I think only 10% of MEN can make their woman orgasm vaginally LOL

Just have her pee on you, thats close, and maybe she'll get used to the feeling of relaxing there while you are in her and it will happen.

I have wondered about this for a long, long time. Why can't most women have vaginal orgasms? If I hadn't had one, I wouldn't even believe they existed, lol!

I think I've finally found my answer. It has to do with circumcision. Uncut males have a foreskin that rubs against the woman's G-spot and produces vaginal orgasms, unlike cut men. So circumcision is the culprit. Turns out that two of the reasons for circumcision to begin with are
1) trying to stop males from masturbating
2) making sex less pleasurable for women.

the only way I can is if i am being fingered, only really really fast..just be sure to keep your hands clean and fingernails SHORT and manicured...use one finger then two, and start slow then get faster and faster, as fast as you can go...its the only way i can reach that point of eruption...i'm not sure why I can't through intercourse. I have only once or twice when I was on top, but not often enough at all

hmmm...

I can make myself squirt, by masterbating, but during sex I just can't. I try.

And while some people think that only a low percentage of women can come, all women are physically capable of it, many women aren't sure what the feeling is and think that they just have to pee so they hold it in.

The consistency of it is just like pee, but it is clear and generally odorless or sweet smelling.

Have her try to stimulate herself to make sure she knows what it feels like, but women can lose as much as two cups in one orgasm, so you might want to lay some towels down.

Never say "all". Some women literally are built wrong and thus are not "wired" correctly to orgasm.

I was very pleasantly surprised the first time I had a squirting orgasm... Whew! The urgency that I felt like I had to pee was unbearable at one point, but we did not stop. It felt kind of strange at first but as we continued it felt more and more pleasurable. I'd love to have them more frequently, but for me, I never know when it is coming. Meaning... I can't plan them or anything like that. They just happen, but when they happen!!!WHOAH!!! Watch out! So wierd how something that feels so strange as it begins to unfold, makes you feel so good in the end.

The tips that were given by frenzifun are great!

just a random thing, but there has been some research out that there is really no such thing as a "vaginal orgasm" and that all orgasms are achieved by stimulation to the clitoris. the "vaginal orgasm" was just something made up to make what worked for a man "work" for a woman, because the fact of the matter is, women weren't supposed to desire or enjoy sex for a long time, but some did. so they came up with that. but it's all clitoral, the "vaginal" orgasm is achieved by indirectly stimulating the clitoris and the g-spot is the same way. yes it intensifies it, just like some people say that stimulating the anus intensifies an orgasm. just like stimulating the "p-spot" on a man intensifies his orgasm. the are just like little additions, not the main show

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I have wondered about this for a long, long time. Why can't most women have vaginal orgasms? If I hadn't had one, I wouldn't even believe they existed, lol!

I think I've finally found my answer. It has to do with circumcision. Uncut males have a foreskin that rubs against the woman's G-spot and produces vaginal orgasms, unlike cut men. So circumcision is the culprit. Turns out that two of the reasons for circumcision to begin with are
1) trying to stop males from masturbating
2) making sex less pleasurable for women.[/quote]

its because some women might actually not really have a g-spot or it isn't senstive to have an orgasm i personally have never had one.