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Q: Any Advise On How to Stop Losing And Have a Boy
asked by: beckums on April 24th, 2007
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hi, i have had four misscarrages. after the last one which was two months ago i had some test and the results were that i cant carry girls without having medical help, but i do a test and around two to four days later i lose, and i ring my doctors and cant get in for a least a week, so what can i do to try and hold on? is it something that i'm doing wrong? am i doing too much, work wise, am i worrying too much? and what is the best way to conceve a boy to stop me going through this all over again. Crying or Very sad
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mc4ever02
replied on April 24th, 2007
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I'm sorry that you have experienced so much loss. I can not imagine how difficult that must be.

I really can't be of much help. I have not heard of only being able to carry a certian gender. You may want to consider a second opinion.

Do you see your ob/gyn regularly? Have you asked them if there is any you can do?
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Becky
replied on April 24th, 2007
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i'm so sorry for your losses. i had a girl then a boy straight after and i honestly don't think we did anything different to get the opposite sex. i think it is literally just chance (unless your husband has a particularly high female sperm count)
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Dannzibelle
replied on April 24th, 2007
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I am sory for your losses. As for how to conceive a boy, it's pretty much up to fate. Apparently differnt positions can determine gender, but if that is true with the positions we were doing i should be carrying a boy but i'm not
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beckums
replied on April 24th, 2007
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my partner has two children and they both are girls. i have mentioned this to my doctor, and she has said that he may have lazy male sperm. so we may have to think about having some form of ivf but to be honest the idea of it scares me.
my grandmother could only carry boys, it's something to do with our blood group, so I'm told.
don't get me wrong i love my partners girls to death and nothing will ever change that but i really want a child of our own, but my partner does turn round and say we already have two if we cant have any it wont be the end of the world, but i cant imagen not having a child that would one day call me mum, is that selfish of me.
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Dannzibelle
replied on April 24th, 2007
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beckums wrote:
my partner has two children and they both are girls. i have mentioned this to my doctor, and she has said that he may have lazy male sperm. so we may have to think about having some form of ivf but to be honest the idea of it scares me.
my grandmother could only carry boys, it's something to do with our blood group, so I'm told.
don't get me wrong i love my partners girls to death and nothing will ever change that but i really want a child of our own, but my partner does turn round and say we already have two if we cant have any it wont be the end of the world, but i cant imagen not having a child that would one day call me mum, is that selfish of me.

It's not selfish at all, most women have a desire to be a biological mother it's perfectly natural. My sister has a step daughter who she loves but she just can't love as much as her own two children
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beckums
replied on April 24th, 2007
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thank you i was starting to think i was been unreasonable at wanting a child of my own
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Dannzibelle
replied on April 24th, 2007
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beckums wrote:
thank you i was starting to think i was been unreasonable at wanting a child of my own

Nope just a woman
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