please, don't post the same exact thread multiple times.

Sorry about that.

You sound sexually frustrated more than anything else.

Simply have a good amount of sex, and then get into relationships.

Hey MisterOz,

I understand your bad feelings. It's easy to say stop whining etcetera but it's hard actually stop worrying about it. And 'stop worrying' is so easy to say if you actually have someone who cares about you. I understand your bad feelings because I have them too. I can't help you by saying what to do or give you the answers to the question of why. Simply because there are no answers. I believe it's bad luck. But please don't let this keep you from trying. And with trying I mean taking the opportunity to meet other people, women. Then you might find the person who has mutual feelings for you. But this is something you can not force. That just has to happen.
Then again, it's so frustrated to see it's not happening. And for me more frustrating to see many many others who succeed. I'm sorry I can't help you but I wish you all the best and I wanted to let you know you're not alone.

All the best!

I got a comment for the one who says have sex before relationship, A lot of times especially at the age of 23, as I am 21 its harder to just find random sex especially if you're a virgin like I, or thats what I'd do for sure so basically what I'm saying is do you have any tips something I possibly haven't heard before?

Well you have yet to say how you approach the opposite sex. You need to stop worrying about how the rest of the world is and just work for yourself now. If you want a relationship then build up some confidence and start talking to girls. I didn't start my first relationship until a month before I turned 20. Yes it bothered me for a awhile, so I started trying. And at the start it didn't work and I got down some, but I realized the only one who can do anything about it was me. So I kept trying, and the more I tried the more I realized how being in a relationship wasn't really all that important to me, so I started to not worry about it. And once I stopped worrying about what I was "missing" and how I was perceived.. I met her. Because I stopped worrying about it I was more confident, I let my good qualities shine to the world.

Fast forward: Now I've been in a wonderful relationship for over a year and everything is good. I realized the only thing holding me back was me, but honestly I was glad I didn't find anyone, because well... I'm in an amazing relationship now and well anything different in my past could have changed what I have now and there is nothing I would do to let that happen.

Stop worrying about being with someone, get to know yourself first and be happy with who you are... the confidence will show (everyone wants a partner who is confident with themselves... it's attractive) and your good qualities will show. Just be happy with who you are and you will find yours where you least expect it.