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*Vanessa* Experienced User
April 23rd, 2007
is it bad that im only 18 and want a baby so bad, i mean there are so many other people out there s=trying thats y i feel selfish for wanting one.
its not caz im just another teenager, i really want to take care or a baby, a child, a teenager, ill understand him/her better caz ill b a younge mum, but is it selfish on my man? he will b going out prawning for afew months soon and i dnt have a secure job, but i need advice
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HcoBrunette06
replied April 23rd, 2007
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it's not selfish, you're a teenager and you have all kinds of hormones, it's what your body is designed to do so of course you feel this way, it's natural.

what is selfish is to bring a baby into an invironment that you know isn't 'good'.

-i suggest getting a job first, and keeping it.

-if you don't have a car, save for one. you'll need this to go back and forth to doctors appointments.

- & move out on your own so you can have your baby in your own space.

have all of these things before you knowingly bring a baby into the world. some great girls here still live at home and have their babies, but they do wish they could have their own places, so think about that first!!
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*Vanessa*
replied April 23rd, 2007
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they dont have a hug emoticon so ill just write *Hugz*, *hugz*, preciate it
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HcoBrunette06
replied April 23rd, 2007
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lol no problem.
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